Asking a present partner to accept past mistakes

[queenlisa]

Originally Posted by Antlered Chamataka

There's a hindu Epic called Ramayana where King Dasratha has 20,000 wives or something. He's the father of the lead avatar. But maybe I'm mixing it up with Krishna, who knows, I need to look up the details.

Apparently some fellas were luckier than everyone else

Anyway, back to the OP, I am not sure why a spouse has to present a detailed autobiography to the significant other. She's definitely not gonna like all details. Not all women have a sense of humour. 50% of them are sensitive she-devils

there are just as many he-devils as she -devils

[Currency Pair Crocodile]

Originally Posted by queenlisa

are you planning on having many wives or do you have many already

Well..... I wish I were the lead character's father in that Epic , except the part where the fourth wife uses a necromancer to enslave his mind.

[TabulaRasa]

Originally Posted by IZthe411

Maybe this should be another thread...

But should it be required that you disclose everything in your past?

Anything that has the power to affect the relationship, because it likely will, anyway, whether disclosed or not, and you'll have to deal with the fallout of it, anyway. Transparency's best, unless it's truly irrelevant to the relationship and has no (and will have no) bearing whatsoever on it.