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Old 09-15-2009, 07:43 PM
 
Location: Griffin, Georgia
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This is a title of an e-mail I got from the "nice, separated or soon to be separated guy" I met a few weeks ago...The whole thing goes something like this:

"I noticed that you had up-dated your profile on Yahoo Personals...didn't know you were still looking for someone...Looks like I will not be going to y our housewarming party after all...I am crushed. I am a fool. And after I was ready to make plans to move out and take everything with me...including the pets that are my children...I will not be going to Yahoo Personals anymore. I guess I didn't do it for you. I still love you with all my heart. I just wish I could die now" All my love, ****

And that was after 2 dates BTW...and he did show up at my housewarming party, believe it or not. Alex Forrest (of Fatal Attraction) anyone??
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Old 09-15-2009, 07:50 PM
 
Location: Omaha
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Yep, buy a handgun and start documenting grounds for a restraining order.
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Old 09-15-2009, 07:57 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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oh hunny, you are the worst kind of girl. believe it or not, if a guy goes on one or two dates and things seem to be going well, then he usually doesn't assume you will continue to date other guys.
unlike the movies not all men are callous about dating.

what worse is you came here to DERIDE this guy!

what terrible shallow brat
Please tell me you're not serious.....lol.
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Old 09-15-2009, 09:07 PM
 
Location: somewhere south of Canada
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Please tell me you're not serious.....lol.
Good grief, no kidding

The guy sounds way too clingy after only two dates. Better to find out now.
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Old 09-15-2009, 09:10 PM
 
Location: Somewhere out there...
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Move and do not reply.
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Old 09-15-2009, 09:27 PM
 
Location: Griffin, Georgia
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Move and do not reply.
Also he writes very "endearing" emails as well but when I talk to him on the phone he comes off as "shy". Very odd. I know there's a difference between needy and "emotionally sensitive".
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Old 09-15-2009, 09:41 PM
 
Location: Somewhere out there...
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Also he writes very "endearing" emails as well but when I talk to him on the phone he comes off as "shy". Very odd. I know there's a difference between needy and "emotionally sensitive".
You can be anyone you want through emails. Its when you have to show your true self that often kills the deal.
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Old 09-15-2009, 09:43 PM
 
Location: republic
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wow hes crazy
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Old 09-15-2009, 09:45 PM
 
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oh hunny, you are the worst kind of girl. believe it or not, if a guy goes on one or two dates and things seem to be going well, then he usually doesn't assume you will continue to date other guys.
unlike the movies not all men are callous about dating.

what worse is you came here to DERIDE this guy!

what terrible shallow brat
WTH does "deride" mean??? LOL Didn't know you could de-ride someone you never rode....ahem...
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Old 09-15-2009, 10:12 PM
 
Location: Syracuse IS Central New York.
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Block his emails, block his calls. Highly doubt he was planning to do anything except stay with his wife and have a little dessert on the side.

Move on, and move on fast and decisively!
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