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Old 09-17-2009, 09:27 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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I don't see what the problem would be. Maybe a man wouldn't be aroused by the sight of his wife ... so? He has hands to help with that. She has hands too. The penis is just erectile tissue. It responds to stimulation. Whether or not he is interested in her, I bet the sex feels nice, especially if the guy wants it to. My friend desperately wanted to be "normal" and "live right." Maybe it was dark. Maybe he shut his eyes. Maybe he thought of someone else.

This is not a crazy leap of the imagination.
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Old 09-17-2009, 09:30 PM
 
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Because they enjoy taking it in the can.
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Old 09-17-2009, 09:35 PM
 
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question is why do some gay men marry straight women?
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Old 09-17-2009, 09:51 PM
 
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Because they don't want to be gay.
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Old 09-17-2009, 11:02 PM
 
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I'm guessing he took Viagra. And like I said if a dude is grossed out his ding dong will not get erected no matter how much you poke at it.

Also imagine the awful feelings one would have after having sex with somebody you don't even like that way. EWwwwwwwwwwww.

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I don't see what the problem would be. Maybe a man wouldn't be aroused by the sight of his wife ... so? He has hands to help with that. She has hands too. The penis is just erectile tissue. It responds to stimulation. Whether or not he is interested in her, I bet the sex feels nice, especially if the guy wants it to. My friend desperately wanted to be "normal" and "live right." Maybe it was dark. Maybe he shut his eyes. Maybe he thought of someone else.

This is not a crazy leap of the imagination.
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Old 09-17-2009, 11:18 PM
 
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I'd say they desperately don't want to be gay or they may even believe if they live with a woman, they can get rid of the gay-ness. It can't be easy to never be accepted because of your sexual orientation. To not disappoint their family, they may do it, just like someone who studies to be doctor or whatever to make parents proud. People do lots of things they, deep down, know are wrong. It's not always because they're just horribly deceitful liars, they may just want to fit in so bad that they lose track of the fact that being true to yourself is all that matters and once they start playing that role, how do they stop? So they stay till they get caught. I think it's sad for everyone involved. The women married to them probably do see the more sensitive side and the feminine side as a positive; love being blind...it does mess up judgment and you see what you want to see...
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Old 09-18-2009, 07:05 AM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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There are gays who stray away from their normal patterns, just like some straight people.
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Old 09-18-2009, 07:08 AM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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How would you know?
Are you living on the same planet as I artsyguy?

There are men who leave their wives for other men and women who leave their husbands for other women.
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Old 09-18-2009, 07:10 AM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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And what is that, exactly? Did they find that darn gene?
It would be nice to post something of some substance to my posts.

Are you biologically a straight woman? I mean a woman who was born straight?

I've heard you many times mention that you are a straight woman.

So it is not a choice to be gay or straight, therefore, you are naturally that way.
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Old 09-18-2009, 07:15 AM
 
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I'm guessing he took Viagra. And like I said if a dude is grossed out his ding dong will not get erected no matter how much you poke at it.

Also imagine the awful feelings one would have after having sex with somebody you don't even like that way. EWwwwwwwwwwww.
1. No, he didn't take Viagra. I doubt many married gay men take Viagra. Well, maybe they do now, but that would be a recent phenomenon.

2. I suppose if he were grossed out, he would have had trouble, but like I said, he wanted to want his wife. Not being aroused and being grossed out are different.

3. You can't seriously have never heard of mercy ****s or jokes about butter faces, putting paper bags over girls' heads, keeping the lights off, and other crass, frat-boy comments. Guys have sex with girls all the time and laugh later about how ugly ot fat or gross they were. Some toothless meth hooker with scabs all over her body is getting some right now.

4. Men in prison.

5. It makes me sad that I have to tell you these things, Artsy.
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