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Old 09-17-2009, 04:22 PM
 
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How long have you been dating? Do you know whether these were already on the PC before he even met you? I see problems already with this relationship if you have to ask about waiting to snoop at his PC.
We've been dating about 5 months now.

I agree with what most of you have posted. Its probably best to address the issue soon. Better to have one discussion about it rather than seething with doubts and having it explode into an argument.


And what do you mean you can see problems already?
For you is the problem that I'm considering checking his history as an option after seeing these sites or do you think there is a problem because those sites are in his history?
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Old 09-17-2009, 04:32 PM
 
Location: The cupboard under the sink
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it depends whether you genuinely found them by accident, or went looking.

if you went looking, you have a potential trust issue.
if not, maybe ask why your partner hasn't told you yet.

if it's the latter, then IMHO although it's not necessarily a relationship problem, however, it is maybe an area which you need to address.

you can always ignore it. it won't go away, but you can turn a blind eye to it. that would have to be your choice, and you would have to ensure you didn't make it an issue later.
your partner is a different person to you. you cannot judge them by your standards.

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We've been dating about 5 months now.

I agree with what most of you have posted. Its probably best to address the issue soon. Better to have one discussion about it rather than seething with doubts and having it explode into an argument.


And what do you mean you can see problems already?
For you is the problem that I'm considering checking his history as an option after seeing these sites or do you think there is a problem because those sites are in his history?
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Old 09-19-2009, 05:12 AM
 
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If Dude is too dumb to clear his browser history or cookies he may be too dumb for you to be with.

And yes, you have every right to bring up what you found.
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Old 09-20-2009, 07:19 AM
 
Location: USA
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If Dude is too dumb to clear his browser history or cookies he may be too dumb for you to be with.

And yes, you have every right to bring up what you found.
Yeah, IE 8 and Mozilla Firefox 3.5 both have in-private browsing and in that mode, no history or cookies are kept.
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Old 09-20-2009, 04:57 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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How long do they remain in history? If I typed in an address six months ago, and never went back, is it still in there? Some website I saw advertised in a TV program, as a matter of fact.
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