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Old 09-22-2009, 07:00 PM
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Originally Posted by floridadreamer View Post
I actually agree with you on that one, because there are no doubt other red flags about him that she hasn't mentioned. The fact that she's practically trying to force her way through the door, doesn't say much about her own character either.
Not sure it's a character issue on her part, I think she's just really pretty young, inexperienced and impatient. We've all been there in one way or another
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Old 09-22-2009, 07:24 PM
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Five months, too soon. However, if you really want him, dump him, and find another guy. If He wants you back he willl let you move it. It is all about the chase.
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Old 09-24-2009, 07:52 PM
Location: southwest TN
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When it's time to move in together, you'll know.

In the meantime, sounds like it's time for you to focus on you. Are you the kind of person he WANTS to be with? Can you take some classes - doesn't have to be college courses, how about a ceramics or cooking class, maybe join a bowling league, take a dance class. Do something so that you have something else to think about rather than feeling "sad". Sounds to me as though you have made him your life focus and I run from people like that - they are suffocating.
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