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Old 09-19-2009, 10:53 AM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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... or is it just a switch in a mans head that never gets turned off?
BINGO!!!
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Old 09-19-2009, 11:07 AM
 
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Because of course we all KNOW that tattoos are the mark of inferior people.

haha! i'm tattooed AND a mom! i had no idea i was inferior! LOL!!
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Old 09-19-2009, 11:10 AM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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Have you ever watched "The Dog Whisperer"? If so, you know that thing Cesar does with his hand when the dog starts acting up - he just taps the dog in the neck and makes a "CCHHHHH" sound.

...maybe try that next time the boys get frisky...if it works for dogs, it usually works for guys.
LOL I love watching Cesar at work. Or maybe it's that rap industry style goatee--I can't take my eyes off it. He's the rockstar of canine.

O/P--face it, you're just the ultimate woman. Every man must have you. Enjoy it while it lasts.
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Old 09-19-2009, 11:21 AM
 
Location: California
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LOL I love watching Cesar at work. Or maybe it's that rap industry style goatee--I can't take my eyes off it. He's the rockstar of canine.

O/P--face it, you're just the ultimate woman. Every man must have you. Enjoy it while it lasts.
hmmm "ultimate woman" you say?? Haven't heard that one before...but wouldn't mind hearing it again!! haha
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Old 09-19-2009, 11:26 AM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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hmmm "ultimate woman" you say?? Haven't heard that one before...but wouldn't mind hearing it again!! haha
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Old 09-19-2009, 11:30 AM
 
Location: California
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Haha it was a joke! Damn my sarcasm
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Old 09-19-2009, 11:58 AM
 
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Ok so here's the thing...I am a friendly, outgoing, flirty, completely happy woman and I realize I really need to be a little more reserved. I dont want to come off like a b*tch though.

Here's what happened last night...
I had a few friends over last night and I'm being a outgoing (flirty whatever), just because thats my personality (Not flirting intentionally). Well guy #1 at the end of the night gets jealous of me hanging out with guy #2 most of the night, so I get a text from him after they leave asking what was going on with me and guy #2 in which I reply "nothing." And then there is guy #3, guy #3 gets jealous of guy #1 & #2 and (what appears to be on purpose bc of comments he made) locks his keys in his car so that he has to stay the night, which I did NOT realize at first (WHO DOES THAT?!?!?). Everyone leaves and guy #3 says "well looks like I have to sleep over" and starts taking his clothes off! I tell him he'll be very comfortable on the couch and I'll wake him up @ 6, like he wanted. Then he tries to tell me how badly "I want him!" NOT TRUE!!! Tells me he knows I feel the chemistry and he'll show me a good time. I make it very clear that I have no interest in him and tell him to go back to the couch. He tries yet AGAIN! And he was shot down AGAIN! I told him I was sorry if I mislead him in anyway, and he brings up my flirting, I tell him how sorry I am and I'm just very outgoing and bubbly...he still finds this hard to believe, and finally goes to sleep on the couch. I lock my bedroom door and lie there dumbfounded lol. I thought we were just having fun hanging out nothing more! WOW!

Why is it that being outgoing and bubbly is more trouble then anything? I mean when I go out with friends or have people over should I just sit there, be quiet, laugh occassionally?? I just thought I was in good company with friends who I have known for a decent amount of time and was having a good time. Does anyone else have this issue? If so how do you tone it down? I want to have fun but apparently its coming off VERY wrong to people and I need advice! HELP!!!!!!!
Hi Ablees8951,

And people want to know why the pretty girls are "stuck up". You need discretion dear. I would have had a 44 180 grain hollow point pointed at #3's forehead and politely told him to leave. That is my personality because I am an irascible SOB.

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Old 09-19-2009, 12:06 PM
 
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I'll start going out in hoodies and sweat pants, maybe that will calm them down? Or is that a turn on too?

Hi Ablees8951,

Find new friends. Also find one who will take you under his protection. I was happy to be a big brother in college. I would frequently escort across campus. No sexual favours were due. I was not even into them that way a good deal of the time.
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Old 09-19-2009, 12:19 PM
 
Location: California
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Hi Ablees8951,

And people want to know why the pretty girls are "stuck up". You need discretion dear. I would have had a 44 180 grain hollow point pointed at #3's forehead and politely told him to leave. That is my personality because I am an irascible SOB.
I will have to get me one of those!! Yea I was really caught off guard by the whole thing, in fact I found myself getting a little nervous. Not being in this situation before I had no idea how to react or over react so I tried being nice and blowing the whole thing off, but it really bothers me that he would be so sure of himself to say he knows I want him....really does that work on some girls? It's pathetic, I hate the idea of having to be "stuck up" or a b*tch to guys when I'm out or whatever bc I am just a friendly person.
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Old 09-19-2009, 12:23 PM
 
Location: California
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Hi Ablees8951,

Find new friends. Also find one who will take you under his protection. I was happy to be a big brother in college. I would frequently escort across campus. No sexual favours were due. I was not even into them that way a good deal of the time.
The one who will take me under his protection would be my friend, well also my ex of 4 yrs, so he may over react a bit. The hard part is finding that guy friend who isn't going to try to hit on meall the time and make moves on me, finding someone who is just cool and looks at me like a little sister or something. Hmmm the quest begins!
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