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Originally Posted by msboom
What are some ideas for regaining the sexual connection after a bad fight?
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1. Tend to other matters first, like expressing sincere apologies and asking for forgiveness.
2. Show the above by being extremely respectful and caring the next few days.
3. Dont get on your spouses nerves during the healing process time.
4. Dont ask for Sex .
5. Show affection at the right moment(s) during the healing time.
6. Listen to your Spouse and validate his/her feelings as they talk .
7. Validate you spouse as someone who is extremely valueable to you.
8. Schedule a very nice dinner out, or a short getaway where you can both have time alone in a romantic environment.
9. Wear your spouses favorite clothes and perfume when you do number eight.
10. When sufficient time and healing has taken place, the sexual connection will be re-established . But it should not be rushed or pushed . When it gets going again, its going to be real good so put on your absolute best performance because great sex cements the marital bond and makes it stronger. Do some very audible screaming and let yourself go ; yes, its alright....because this night is a time of celebration and your putting the past behind you. The night is young and passions are flaring ...so dont worry about what time it is or the Sales Meeting you have to speak at next Tuesday morning....tonight is YOUR night so devote all your thoughts and energies to the task at hand pretending its your wedding night all over again . Sure...try new things if you like ... remember, youre with your loving Spouse whos Body is at your command , so, command the Ship well and steer it into an oblivion of esctasy as you travel over smooth waters of incredible delight........................................... ........................... (When you get back to Shore, let us know how it went).
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