What would you have done here? (older, advice, straight, looking)

[thebobs]

Originally Posted by rubber_factory

First make sure that you know where all the building's exits are.

Then put a lecherous grin on your face, make sure you're casually leaning against something, and say, "You know, I was looking at you. But now that you mention it, your daughter looks just about right, too. How would you two like to join me in my motel room?"

You've then put yourself in the eye of the hurricane, just let it all unfold. This is how memories are made.

Uh no. You don't go there. You can say whatever to her, but don't drag her kids into it. That is not cool at all.

[le roi]

Originally Posted by thebobs

Uh no. You don't go there. You can say whatever to her, but don't drag her kids into it. That is not cool at all.

Who said anything about being cool?

This is about humor, and entertainment.

After all, she's the one who dragged her kids into it.

[STT Resident]

Originally Posted by Andrew83

Ok so last night i went to TGI Fridays after work and i was sitting on a table opposite but near a woman and her two kids. I found her attractive, and she seemed to be single. I could see her sometimes looking at me from a mirror reflection. So as the time there progressed we made eye contact with eachother often- i felt a little bit unsure wether to aproach her or not because she was with her kids, it felt inappropriate for me to approach her so i just smiled at her. She reacted by asking me in an angry type of tone ''have you got a problem?'' At first my brain didnt quite register what she said so i said ''huh''? and she was like ''have you got a problem.''
So i replied ''no i havent got a problem, why is that?''
She replied ''well i have seen the way that you have been looking at my daughter and i dont like it.''
I was shocked by what she was saying, her daughter looked like 15 if that, i felt violated. I said that i was not looking at her daughter and she said ''look i see the same things that you see, i saw what you were doing'' so i said again that i wasnt looking at her daughter. So she replied ''ok then can you move away'' so i replied ''no i was not looking at your daughter, you are parranoid.'' And then she started to threaten me ''ok, you're going to be sorry when her dad gets here.''
So my meal comes and i couldnt eat it fast enough and i leave quickly so that there isnt any more confrontation. As I started thinking over the incident when i was driving in the car i felt sad and gloomy at the womans accusations. I wasnt looking at her daughter. At the same time, i knew what her game was. She was trying to get me to say ''i wasnt looking at your daughter, i was looking at you.''
Ughh, British women...no class at all.
What would you have done in this predicament?

I'm not seeing this the same way as most at all.

Andrew, aren't you quite young, in your 20s? You say the woman's child looked to be around 15 years old so that would mean the woman herself was in her mid to late 30s. With all the problems you seem to have dealing with the opposite sex (and inexperience) you may well have misinterpreted her glances at you. Women with teenage daughters are often highly protective and your continual sideways glances may well have given the Mum reason for concern when she thought you were eyeing up her daughter.

[Andrew83]

Originally Posted by STT Resident

I'm not seeing this the same way as most at all.

Andrew, aren't you quite young, in your 20s? You say the woman's child looked to be around 15 years old so that would mean the woman herself was in her mid to late 30s. With all the problems you seem to have dealing with the opposite sex (and inexperience) you may well have misinterpreted her glances at you. Women with teenage daughters are often highly protective and your continual sideways glances may well have given the Mum reason for concern when she thought you were eyeing up her daughter.

thanks for your advice, but the way we were positioned- i was directly in line with the mothers view, she was directly in front of me and all you had to do was look straight and we were looking at eachother. From my perspective it seemed like she wanted to approach me without coming acrross as kind and sensitive so she used a failed hard and abrasive approach.

[JeepGirl118]

LOL!!! The "TVSG" saga continues...

[tuteishungry]

Originally Posted by rubber_factory

Who said anything about being cool?

This is about humor, and entertainment.

After all, she's the one who dragged her kids into it.

Dude, you're gross hahahahhahaha

[M3 Mitch]

In any case don't waste any more time on this broad!

[RVlover]

Originally Posted by Andrew83

Ok so last night i went to TGI Fridays after work and i was sitting on a table opposite but near a woman and her two kids. I found her attractive, and she seemed to be single. I could see her sometimes looking at me from a mirror reflection. So as the time there progressed we made eye contact with eachother often- i felt a little bit unsure wether to aproach her or not because she was with her kids, it felt inappropriate for me to approach her so i just smiled at her. She reacted by asking me in an angry type of tone ''have you got a problem?'' At first my brain didnt quite register what she said so i said ''huh''? and she was like ''have you got a problem.''
So i replied ''no i havent got a problem, why is that?''
She replied ''well i have seen the way that you have been looking at my daughter and i dont like it.''
I was shocked by what she was saying, her daughter looked like 15 if that, i felt violated. I said that i was not looking at her daughter and she said ''look i see the same things that you see, i saw what you were doing'' so i said again that i wasnt looking at her daughter. So she replied ''ok then can you move away'' so i replied ''no i was not looking at your daughter, you are parranoid.'' And then she started to threaten me ''ok, you're going to be sorry when her dad gets here.''
So my meal comes and i couldnt eat it fast enough and i leave quickly so that there isnt any more confrontation. As I started thinking over the incident when i was driving in the car i felt sad and gloomy at the womans accusations. I wasnt looking at her daughter. At the same time, i knew what her game was. She was trying to get me to say ''i wasnt looking at your daughter, i was looking at you.''
Ughh, British women...no class at all.
What would you have done in this predicament?

When she said to you 'will you move away' ... you should have and as you were leaving , you should have said ' I was actually admiring how nice YOU looked tonight' . She would have gotton the truth and she might have apologized (but not necessarily) ; from her angle it appeared you were looking at her daughter....an honest mistake .... and based on the present sexual immoral and perverted climate in our Culture, it fueled her suspicion. I wouldnt get upset over it ; sometimes we are blamed for things which are rather innocent . Forgive and move on, I say. By the way, did you look for a wedding ring on her finger which might have told you she was married ? Always look for the ring . I realize a small minority of women dont wear wedding rings, but nearly all married women want to. How are you feeling today about the whole incident by the way ....and....what were you doing sitting ON the table instead of AT it !?

[monkey cabal]

Originally Posted by Andrew83

What would you have done in this predicament?

You should have said: “DAUGHTER??! I thought that was your son!" (Lisping the word “son” in a really gay voice.)

[PassTheChocolate]

"I was looking at the booger decorating your nose."