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compulsive behavior?
it could be you need to get help. 12 step and counseling.
you can at least find out.
a lil CDF posting will not make it go away.
Maybe you're right.
But if need help I think it's about it that 1 hour I am shaking not knowing where I am and asking myself millions of questions.
And, maybe I am wrong, but the fact I care about him I can't just stop caring about him. If he stopped carring about me and i do the same, I would be just like him, don't you think?
And, I don't wanna hate him, I just want to stop asking if he will call or text to say sorry or ask me how I am.
I think it's good that you don't hate him. Hate is a very toxic emotion.
He treated you badly. Quit questioning and get on with your life. He is not good enough for you. You could question it forever, but what's past is past.
You need to move on. There's no excuse for beating and cheating.
Getting even only makes more of a mess. Its better just tomove on. Eventually any hate/negativity will burn out when you are sick of thinking of someone below you or when you see how pathetic the person is for bring that BS into your life.
Just dont go revenge mode. Total waste of time and makes you look like the nutty one.
Thanks all.
I agree with most of you.
Its a part of life where everyone should go through.And, I am making such a big deal of it.
I do it. They do it to me.Why so much crying?
The words "hate" and "love" I find to be very overused. I think people use them when they don't mean it, don't use them when they should and not everyone truly understands the true meaning of either word.
To say you hate someone is pretty powerful, I think it's easy to say and feels good saying it but I think deep down a lot of people don't actually mean it. I think they say it out of hurt and anger but later regret that they've said it.
Just my own theory..
Maybe you're right.
But if need help I think it's about it that 1 hour I am shaking not knowing where I am and asking myself millions of questions.
And, maybe I am wrong, but the fact I care about him I can't just stop caring about him. If he stopped carring about me and i do the same, I would be just like him, don't you think?
And, I don't wanna hate him, I just want to stop asking if he will call or text to say sorry or ask me how I am.
No one should ever feel foolish for not hating someone. It is such an ugly and draining place to be. A true display of strong character is when you don't allow these situations to make you bitter and jaded. You don't want to be one of those women hating men because of what one guy did to you.
You are going to continue caring about him. Even if you stopped, it wouldn't make you like him. You were the one betrayed, not the other way around, yes?
You will stop asking and wondering, eventually. It will pass, I promise.
I know the feeling. That was before I got a new motherboard installed and ditched the emotion chip.
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