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Old 10-01-2009, 02:47 PM
 
Location: Sango, TN
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Listen,

Women are only doing what they are biologically designed to do. Find a good genetic partner first, but a strong second is one that can provide for them and their children. Its just that todays society has warped whats wanted, into whats needed. Like peacocks flashing their feathers to attract a mate, males buy lots of nice stuff to prove to women that they are a good genetic mate.

This is why you'll see younger women date dead beats, with no money, and no hope. Yet when they get a little older, or have their first child, their needs change. Thats when they want to find a dad for their kids, if the partner they picked turns out not to be one of those.

The exceptionally pretty girls want both, a good genetic partner, and a rich guy to take care of their kids. Don't worry, if they marry some old guy, who has money but is ugly, they'll be fooling around on him before long with some young guy, like yourself.

Enjoy your age for what it is, time to fool around. Believe it or not, by the time your 30, if you play your cards right, you'll be a catch to the young girls.
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Old 10-01-2009, 02:48 PM
 
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Only took you 23 yrs. come to the conclusion that every female in existance was born, lives and dies with no other concerned or goal than to get a mans money? The one with the most suff wins.
That is only for the woman's side. The man wins for knockin the girls up cheap. $10 bucks a head is really tearing it up.
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Old 10-01-2009, 02:50 PM
 
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Well then, these women are simple minded. I don't think I'd want to be with a woman if that's all they care about.

Thank God for porn and Jergens.
Hey, well, at least you know the price of your independence.

But in all seriousness, I have never put up with golddigging types, and they have never put up with me. I make good money, but I didn't come from money, and I am frugal. Frugality is like kryptonite to these types, so just 'be who you are', speak your mind, and let the chips fall where they may. it's not your responsibility to put up with anybody's sh*t, that's my advice.

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Old 10-01-2009, 02:54 PM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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Hey, well, at least you know the price of your independence.

But in all seriousness, I have never put up with golddigging types, and they have never put up with me. I make good money, but I didn't come from money, and I am frugal. Frugality is like kryptonite to these types, so just 'be who you are', speak your mind, and let the chips fall where they may. it's not your job to put with anybody's sh*t, that's my advice.
Amen.
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Old 10-01-2009, 02:54 PM
 
Location: southern california
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interesting post. i dont see cold calculating focused attempts at life improvements by all women.
i think some women do that. i certainly think money and good looks are on every womans list.
but not all women are alike. lots of women find a confident loser very attractive.
women get blamed for trying to improve their lives alot. she wants love she wants money is that evil?. i am guilty also of blaming them.
the further i go away from getting banged up the less i am critical of women.
its getting better.
but please lets not talk about divorce ouch.
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Old 10-01-2009, 02:54 PM
 
Location: Falls Church, VA
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Only took you 23 yrs. come to the conclusion that every female in existance was born, lives and dies with no other concerned or goal than to get a mans money? The one with the most suff wins.
Not all women thank you very much... I could care less if he buys me anything, as long as he treats me with respect and love.
Am I a romantic? absolutely... do I like presents? who doesn't? but I am not looking for my future SO's bank account records before I accept going on a date. In fact when my ex and I met he was unemployed!!! and I fell in love regardless...
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Old 10-01-2009, 03:02 PM
 
Location: Florida
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Hate to break into this little fantasy with a dose of reality here. . . there are just as many men, as women, especially in this declining economy that do attempt to bunker down with some of us women that have our gig together and possess our own toys and financial stability. I have experienced this. The ones who have either been laid off or who are holding a job to 'just get by,' seem to try much more desperately to attain a commitment, in hopes. Should not be a shocker to anyone, is not to me . . . the rate of marriage during the Great Depression skyrocketed primarily for security purposes. Those who have something will experience and encounter these situations. Forewarned is forearmed. It is what it is.
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Old 10-01-2009, 03:06 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Hate to break into this little fantasy with a dose of reality here. . . there are just as many men, as women, especially in this declining economy that do attempt to bunker down with some of us women that have our gig together and possess our own toys and financial stability. I have experienced this. The ones who have either been laid off or who are holding a job to 'just get by,' seem to try much more desperately to attain a commitment, in hopes. Should not be a shocker to anyone, is not to me . . . the rate of marriage during the Great Depression skyrocketed primarily for security purposes. Those who have something will experience and encounter these situations. Forewarned is forearmed. It is what it is.
EXACTLY! Like I was saying, many of us are in "survival mode" these days.
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Old 10-01-2009, 03:10 PM
 
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This is the way it works. We all know women will only marry a millionaire. Since old ladies eventually find one and were widowed long ago, they have all the money. That means a cabana boy needs to get the cash from old ladies either directly or indirectly by a church collection and a priest who also like cabana boys. Take that money and give it to the materialistic young babes. Once you get a little older but fail to make 6 figures then its the peep shows for you. Live off your cabana boy good memories, not the bad ones with old ladies and the priest. Try to block those ones out.
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Old 10-01-2009, 03:10 PM
 
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Sarcasm, Valee.

Of course we are not all after money.
I think Memphis has very good points.

Hey, my bf is unemployed now
So is my ntbx
and both my sons
I love em anyway, except for the ex.
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