I'm 28, He's 41

[andreaspercheron]

If you were a few years younger I would have had a different response but you being almost 30 makes you a full fledged adult LOL - do what you want and see how things go. The only issue I foresee in these age difference relationships isn't the now but the later when they get a lot older. When he's 70, you'll still be in your 50's and that's something to consider.

[crbcrbrgv]

Originally Posted by seeniorita

He is VERY lucky!

Maybe she's the lucky one?

[NC~Mom]

12 years isn't much of a difference....my oldest and her fiancee are 13 years apart and I've never seen a happier couple.....I suppose it depends on the maturity level of both people....she is very mature for her age and he is very young at heart.

[mongoslade223]

Originally Posted by linkbr

Too much of an age difference (generally speaking)? We get along fairly well, although it's way too early to tell if it'll go anywhere. I just don't want to keep this up if age is going to be an issue. I know it's different in every case, but I'm a typical 28, I don't know enough about him to say if he's young at heart or not. We have fun going out, but don't know if pursuing this is wise considering he's about 12 yrs older.

Age ain't nothing but a number.