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10-03-2009, 04:08 PM
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Is she lesbian?
I've noticed that when speaking to a women, one on one for the first time, they will with in about 5 minutes mention if they have a bf, husband or ex male friend. But if she doesn't, could she be gay? I've known and worked with two lesbians, both of them fit the non mention m.o. They both eventually told me they were gay, they were both hesitant to admit it as they thought I came across as rather conservative, I am not. My looks are deceiving  and in reality, I'm very open minded. Both of the confirmed lesbians were quite attractive women, not masculine at all, wore make up and jewelry. They just never looked or talked about men, even with other women. I was just wondering as I know this one girl that in the nine months I've known her she has not once mentioned anything about dating, old boy friends, "guys", nothing.  |
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10-03-2009, 04:14 PM
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Diggin' the scene with a gangsta' lean...
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Perhaps she just doesn't define herself by her relationship status. I know a lot of people who do, it can be annoying sometimes.
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10-03-2009, 04:15 PM
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I don't know about everyone but I'm not a lesbian and I don't volunteer my relationship status that quickly. I figure if I just met you, it's none of your business. Or if you really want to know, you will ask.
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10-03-2009, 04:33 PM
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Certified Smart Axe:)
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Drunk sittin at the bar....in walks a beautiful woman....drunk hits on her....she shuts him down and says...'sorry, I"m a lesbian"
Drunk says "What's a lesbian"
Woman says "Well, all I think about is making love to women"
Drunk says...."WOW, I"m a lesbian too."
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10-03-2009, 04:35 PM
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Funny. My newphew told his mom that he thought I was lesbian because I was not married by my mid-20's. Where do people get these ideas? It's like if you don't fit the conventional mold, there must be something "different" about you.
Maybe this girl just doesn't have anything to talk to you about from that area of her life. I knew a guy for quite a few months who had a live in GF that I knew nothing about. Some people are more private than others and some are simply hiding something. Who cares either way?
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10-03-2009, 04:37 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Coolhand68
Perhaps she just doesn't define herself by her relationship status. I know a lot of people who do, it can be annoying sometimes.
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It is annoying indeed, when the woman brings the "boyfriend" up in the first 5 minutes. Whatever makes them think I'm hitting on them  |
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10-03-2009, 04:46 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Coolhand68
Perhaps she just doesn't define herself by her relationship status. I know a lot of people who do, it can be annoying sometimes.
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THIS!!!!!
I have a co-worker who LOOOOVES to mention her "FIANCEEEE" and it's SO annoying. |
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10-03-2009, 04:49 PM
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Diggin' the scene with a gangsta' lean...
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Originally Posted by Antlered Chamataka
It is annoying indeed, when the woman brings the "boyfriend" up in the first 5 minutes. Whatever makes them think I'm hitting on them |
They usually fall into one of two categories...homely women who are so grateful and/or proud to have a boyfriend/husband they feel the need to shout it from every rooftop at every opportunity, or the really hot ones who want to get it out there right away so you don't get any ideas about hitting on them or asking them out. Mention it where it's actually applicable to the conversation and that's alright. But purposely trying to force your relationship status into the discussion is presumptuous. |
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10-03-2009, 04:51 PM
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Originally Posted by Coolhand68
They usually fall into one of two categories...homely women who are so grateful and/or proud to have a boyfriend/husband they feel the need to shout it from every rooftop at every opportunity, or the really hot ones who want to get it out there right away so you don't get any ideas about hitting on them or asking them out.
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I'm just a one category dude 
I'm not hitting on you and I don't need your santa claus tales  |
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10-03-2009, 05:38 PM
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yes, i am pretty nerdy.
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Originally Posted by carp killer
I've noticed that when speaking to a women, one on one for the first time, they will with in about 5 minutes mention if they have a bf, husband or ex male friend. But if she doesn't, could she be gay? I've known and worked with two lesbians, both of them fit the non mention m.o. They both eventually told me they were gay, they were both hesitant to admit it as they thought I came across as rather conservative, I am not. My looks are deceiving and in reality, I'm very open minded. Both of the confirmed lesbians were quite attractive women, not masculine at all, wore make up and jewelry. They just never looked or talked about men, even with other women. I was just wondering as I know this one girl that in the nine months I've known her she has not once mentioned anything about dating, old boy friends, "guys", nothing. |
really? come on.
i'm certainly not a lesbian, but i've never had a boyfriend either. (terrible luck on that front). |
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