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I have a lot of small things that would be a deal-breakers. If I'm considering a long-term relationship with a gal, then the biggest deal-breaker is someone who can't accept the fact that I have some medical problems. Being a kidney transplant patient, I'm gonna need someone who's going to stick with me regardless how sick I get.
I will not date any woman who tells me that I am cruel to animals because I eat meat and hunt/fish. I dont mind if she is a vegetarian but if I wanted a sermon I would be in church. I also wont date any woman who calls herself a "vegan" because they look pale, sickly and skinny as a bean pole. No thanks!
O.K., so everyone has their "list" of what they're looking for in a girlfriend/boyfriend, or even if you are someone looking for a long term commitment like marriage. Most times, however, we usually have to compromise; rarely does anyone get EVERYTHING they are looking for in another person when it comes to relationships.
What's the ABSOLUTE DEAL BREAKER for you? What is something you will absolutely NOT compromise on, no matter what?
If she despises me, then I want nothing to do with her. But if she despises me, she probably would not have expressed interest in being my girlfriend in the first place.
One thing that's come up recently is: does she own a gun? If she does, I don't want to be anywhere around her. People are more likely to be shot by someone they know than by a stranger--and I don't need my S.O. pointing a gun in my face and telling me to get out of my own home--or even hers, if I've been living there.
O.K., so everyone has their "list" of what they're looking for in a girlfriend/boyfriend, or even if you are someone looking for a long term commitment like marriage. Most times, however, we usually have to compromise; rarely does anyone get EVERYTHING they are looking for in another person when it comes to relationships.
What's the ABSOLUTE DEAL BREAKER for you? What is something you will absolutely NOT compromise on, no matter what?
The deal breaker is anyone who looks on marriage as a "deaL".
I absolutely, will not, under any circumstance, tolerate lying.
Some of the best people tell"white lies" because of fears you might not like them which is vastly different from some scum trying to get over on you with lies.
Annie: so if I tell you that you look fine in your red dress--even though I hate red dresses in general--that is a bad thing?
Yet, if I tell you that you look like a skank for wearing some skimpy outfit that you happen to like, and have gotten good reviews from other people on, that's more acceptable?
What's the point in making you feel bad by telling the truth? Even if I merely equivocate, you might feel bad. Like if I said the same thing in a less harsh choice of words: "Idon't think you should wear it."
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