[i know this is shallow to some] but girls w small breast dont turn me on (looking, relation)

[Johnny Bananas]

Originally Posted by LEVOW

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Her getting a reduction is a slap to God's creation/masterpiece... But damn how the hell can you manage to swing your body around in a two hour match with the size of those ??

Anyway, girls with big turn me off. I like mine to have a solid B cup. I'm more a waist guy but more importantly is a gal with blue eyes and a personality... the rest doesn't matter.

[gwynedd1]

Originally Posted by FeelingUgly008

Most girls in my country love blue/green eyed, pale skinned blonde guys. I don't know if you're blonde. But just being pale skinned and blue eyed would get you tons of points with the ladies over here... because here in Chile most guys are tanned, brunettes, brown eyed, etc. So pale skinned and light eyed is exotic. Plus, they love the accent and the fact that "he's a foreigner OMG". lol. So yeah, you'd be a huge hit in some parts of the world just as I've heard us latinos are a huge hit in the Netherlands or in some place like that.

Hi FeelingUgly008,

Its always easier. Girls would always light up when I would pull off Wolfgang from Austria or Mario from Piedmont. Sure, there needs to be something behind it but is it easier to find the best person meeting five or fifty? I never used that ability to date here since nothing permanent could come of it but it was very instructive and kind of fun. Primates act the same way. The foreign males are at the bottom of the male pecking order but at the top of the female one. I sat next to a black guy coming back from Norway on a plane. He pretty much said the same thing. He was not some desperate fool either, but a good looking articulate guy. He seemed pretty happy.

[Saberai]

Originally Posted by FeelingUgly008

But then again, most people see you as plain and not sexy. I should know! I'm a B cup and I know that's not tiny but hey, I'm not considered sexy.

Let's face it, the ideal size is probably between a C cup and a D, maybe DD. You can always try and conceal them. Sure they will still be noticeable, but I swear I'd rather deal with unwanted attention than with not being noticed at all, or having to just grin and bear it when my boyfriend looks at a busty woman, because hey, he never looks at small chested women, which means he must think big breasts are better. And that's not a very nice feeling.

But anyway, if I could naturally grow a pair of D cups, I would. Everything has its cons, and I'd rather deal with those than with the ones that come with being small!

I have B-cups too. Heck! I have a size 6 waist! Not every guy has a big- boob fetish like the OP here.

Lots of supermodels have from A to C cups. On that note, my boyfriend loves mine...because he loves me, you see? If you meet a guy and he won't take you for who you are, then you got your answer of the kind of chump he really is and you can move on!

[DennyCrane]

FeelingUgly008,

IMO, you waste too much energy worrying about what your BF likes and dislikes. So what if he prefers bigger breasts. I dated a girl who preferred guys with facial hair. I have none. But one day, I decided to stop shaving. After a few days, she told me to shave. She never thought I looked bad with facial hair (although I did). She just said, "it's not you." She accepted me the way I was, which is how your BF should treat you. If he's an insensitive jerk who stares at other women's breasts, then why are you wasting your time with him?

So you can sit there and wish you had bigger breasts. You could even go out and get them. But something tells me it won't solve your underlying issues. You'll just find something else to not like about yourself. If you think having a B cup makes you plain and not sexy, then you clearly have been hanging around the wrong people. Like you said, you probably let people brainwash you too much. One of the sexiest women I've ever met was probably an A-cup. I don't know where you get this idea that there is some ideal cup size. There isn't.

[FeelingUgly008]

Originally Posted by Saberai

I have B-cups too. Heck! I have a size 6 waist! Not every guy has a big- boob fetish like the OP here.

Lots of supermodels have from A to C cups. On that note, my boyfriend loves mine...because he loves me, you see? If you meet a guy and he won't take you for who you are, then you got your answer of the kind of chump he really is and you can move on!

I swaer I have NEVER met a guy who preferred an A or B cup over a D or DD. Really. Maybe it's cultural, or maybe it's because I'm still fairly young (21 y/o), and so are guys I deal with. But really, I mean they'll date anyone, but when it comes to boobs it'll be like "meh, well, I guess I can take it" when they're small, but if they're suddenly dating a big breasted girl it's like "God, I can't get enough of those puppies! I just love her 'mountains'!" (to quote the OP). That's the difference. They just accept small breasts, but they use words such as 'love' to describe how they feel about big ones. It's hard not to feel lacking

I swear, every nice guy I've met has had this fetish. I know they "can't help it" and "it's not their fault" and that I "shouldn't feel bad about it and just get over it", but it gets tiresome having to deal with it with every other guy. It's like, if I have small breasts, I just have to accept that they're going to ogle big breasts, simply because I can't give them that. I tell you, if they ogled small breasts, fine, I wouldn't care, I'd feel proud. If I had big breasts and they ogled big ones, great, I'd feel proud too. I wouldn't mind, because I know I have what they like. But I don't.

I have never, ever in my life see a guy intentionally check out a small breasted girl's chest the way they can't help looking at big ones. Ever. No guy has ever said "she's just so hot because she has small boobs", not it's always "look at those funbags, HOT!". And on many occasions, if a guy happens to be dating a small chested girl or likes one, other guys refer to him as a "pedophile" or "closeted gay".

Anyway... I'm becoming used to that feeling of being "lacking" for guys.

[LEVOW]

I swaer I have NEVER met a guy who preferred an A or B cup over a D or DD. Really. Maybe it's cultural, or maybe it's because I'm still fairly young (21 y/o), and so are guys I deal with. But really, I mean they'll date anyone, but when it comes to boobs it'll be like "meh, well, I guess I can take it" when they're small, but if they're suddenly dating a big breasted girl it's like "God, I can't get enough of those puppies! I just love her 'mountains'!" (to quote the OP). That's the difference. They just accept small breasts, but they use words such as 'love' to describe how they feel about big ones. It's hard not to feel lacking

i totally agree with this, yes u can date a girl with small breast and eventually learn to accept, but thats not what u preffer or really wish you had, i dont judge girls with small breast, if they feel beautiful and sexy, more power to them, but all im saying is that thats not what im attracted to. I seen chubby girls w big boobs with alot of "game", alot of guys after them, but then i seen chubby girls with no boobs, that had problems getting guys.

[LinaJo76]

Originally Posted by LEVOW

I know im going to get eaten alive, by women who are going to be saying, "its whats inside that counts" blah blah blah, sorry im just saying how i feel. Ever since i was a teenager, i have an affinity for big breasted woman, my first big celebrity crush was on Samantha Fox. My exes all have had . I know you probbably know that im seperated right now, but all the girls ive gone out with are pretty buxom. Its funny, cuz i had relations w a young lady that had small , and it was ok, but i wasnt turned on, needless to say, it happened one time, and i never called her back for seconds. I know this might be dumb to some of you, but its a prerequisite, for girls to have atleast a c cup, for me to even find them attractive and sexy. I prefer girls w d's though, sorry just telling the way it is. I dont like fake ones, though, only 100% natural, like Selma Hayek, and Sofia Vergada.Ive gone out w girls, that werent even that pretty from the face, but had nice , sorry thats just my preference, dont shoot me!

Well, let me ask you: What do you consider small? Below a size D? Below a size C? Below a size B? Or what?

Many men are different about what they consider is small breasts and such. Some consider less than a D cup small and some consider less than an A cup small. Everybody has different ways they look at things.

So, what's your opinion?

[FeelingUgly008]

Originally Posted by LEVOW

i totally agree with this, yes u can date a girl with small breast and eventually learn to accept, but thats not what u preffer or really wish you had, i dont judge girls with small breast, if they feel beautiful and sexy, more power to them, but all im saying is that thats not what im attracted to. I seen chubby girls w big boobs with alot of "game", alot of guys after them, but then i seen chubby girls with no boobs, that had problems getting guys.

And that's what sucks. I mean, I'm not even fat, or chubby. I'm not stick thin, but definitely not overweight. Yet some even uglier than me girls, fatter, with awful haircuts but massive breasts get more attention and stuff.

I just don't like feeling like second best. And that's how what you described feels. I'm not judging you LEVOW, I'm just ranting here. I'm just tired of feeling like that when it comes to guy, because I insist, even the sweetest, nicest guys have all been like this. And surgery is not an option for me, also because people are so judgemental of fake women. It's unfair.

[LEVOW]

Originally Posted by LinaJo76

Well, let me ask you: What do you consider small? Below a size D? Below a size C? Below a size B? Or what?

Many men are different about what they consider is small breasts and such. Some consider less than a D cup small and some consider less than an A cup small. Everybody has different ways they look at things.

So, what's your opinion?

below cs are small to me.

[Mathguy]

Originally Posted by LEVOW

below cs are small to me.

Every woman I've had relations with (except one) have had at least C's. My wife had D's, my last gf was C (fake boobs), current gf is on the bigger end of C and quite frankly her's are near perfect.