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Originally Posted by Connecticut Pam
Anyone can paint a wonderful picture on here; it is a world of fantasy for the most part. You can be whoever you want to be, look however you want to look and work at a multi million dollar corporation in Manhattan...who would know the difference?
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Yet in the next paragraph, you go on to say how people can find out tons of information - which is it?
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My husband works within the I.T. field in a very high capacity as a Unix Systems operator and has investigated fraud situations on the internet. He says the amount of information that their company can and will find is amazing...and would blow my mind. Of course he cannot tell me and I am beginning to think I am glad he can't.
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With all due respect, even husbands in the FBI, CIA and NSA discuss "shop" matters with their spouses...
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You are going to take chances no matter who you date but I truly believe you are throwing yourself under the bus by doing it on the internet as you have already seen.
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I take it you've never tried on-line dating?
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Food for thought: Dr. Phil says that right now 70% of all Employers are using the internet..Facebook and My Space in particular to learn more about potential employees. They want to know how people spend their time away from work, what hobbies they have and more. Anyone who feels or thinks that your employers cannot see you online, take a deep breath and walk back into reality world. They can and do.
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Dr. Phil is hardly a qualified source for informed opinions. And as for employer searches on FB - yes, they do it. It's hardly ethical, and most probably not legal.
To whit - violation of FCRA and FCRA+ laws; state and Federal discrimination laws; the fact that certain states prohibit denying a job to someone because of off-duty conduct that is illegal. In West Virginia, for example, an employer can't deny a job to someone purely because the person is an off-duty smoker; in New York, "consumption of legal products" is protected activity.
You also need to factor in that a large percentage of FB profiles are probably "puffed up" - in short, lies. Any action taken by a prospective employer that is based on these lies could be open to legal rebuttals.
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Me? I am retired, have done my time in the big world of office politics and dating....married and enjoy my time on Facebook playing games and on here chatting.
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Do you know that the game applications on FB collect data on you that may be forwarded to a third party? That by playing those games, you give consent to the collection and dissemination of that info?
And did you know that your chats here, whether on the board or in PMs, can be monitored? Have you read the rules for this board (or any other, for that matter - most of them post the rules)? Did you know that your right to free speech is suspended on a forum?
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I am Still very careful about what I post...and suggest you be too.
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That's a wise policy, granted. But now, beware - the guy that you've labeled a stalker could find you and sue you for defamation of character.