How do you catch a cheater?

[Thursday007]

Just Google "How to catch a cheater" and there are an endless supply of websites to assist you if you choose this route.

[jzynblgs]

Basically pay attention to his habits....everyday routines.
as others have said "computers, mobile devices, phone bills. "

Also, any type of change in his appearance or style could be a big indicator.
People can tend to show physical signs as well ... losing or gaining of weight.

Even the slightest simple things can be of some use to you... those are the closeups and best clues to "catching " a cheater.

[malamute]

Originally Posted by Lindasan

I think he's cheating on me...I can feel it. Short of hiring a private investigator or becoming an obsessed maniac that follows him, checks his phone, etc., how do I find out for sure?

I'd look at the reasons you feel it -- something is already telling you he's cheating. If you stop and look, and don't live in denial, then you'll have the proof, the proof is what is telling you something's up. You don't need to torture yourself by having to see it with your own eyes or becoming obsessive.

It's like the spouse who is told by the other that he/she is working overtime but the pay checks didn't go up, or someone who used to always be home, often isn't home, and other habits have suddenly changed.

It's like the spouse that comes across little mirrors, little straws, white powder here and there, is puzzled a little and has some nagging feeling something isn't right, you really don't have to have be smacked on the side of the head to see what is going on, you just have to accept that your feelings are more than that.