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/\ perfect response. A man will always give himself away by the way he looks at another man. He might not say anything, but gay men look at a man's eyes to clue them in to weather or not another man is gay. They could be just walking down the street and not know each other, but when they look at each other, they just know, by the way the other guy is looking at them. Glances mean the world to gay men. They could have 2 women next to him and somehow make a "contact" to meet in the bathroom or somewhere else private with another man , just by "eye language". Even if they are sitting in different tables at a restaurant.
lmao because as a gay man this is so true! anything longer than a 5 second stare and we know what time it is! Most men are very uncomfortable with a silent stare from another man and women know this look because it's a sexual stare.
As for the whole manicure, pedicure, haircuts and clothes that doesn't necessarily mean your gay. Many men just like to look good and be well groomed! Hell Ozzy Osbourne wore make up as did Gene Simmons from KISS! gay? Some of you should go to a gay bar because a lot of them look like your father all conservative looking!
I'm just curious if anyone ever been with someone and further down the line suspected that he or she was gay. I'm asking because I had an ex years back that made me wonder. He liked to get manicures, pedicures, facials, hung around guys alot and love to go through the back door. I broke it off because I hated it. He move to Atlanta 2 yrs ago. Even though we are no longer a couple we still keep in touch. I asked him about it once a while back and he became very defensive. I could be overanalyzing this but I don't know. I guess I'm trying to see if it's normal behavior or if you think that he's gay.
There are a bunch real guys who get manicures, pedicures and facials in 2009. Also hitting a women in the butt ain't new, some women actually like that. Although I don't do those manicures, pedicures and facials, some like it.
'Straight' men that are secretly gay and want to stay secretly gay do NOT flaunt their true sexuality and they will most definitely do any and everything that is the opposite of anything associated with gay.
Your ex was probably in touch with his feminine side and probably got defensive because he felt judged, especially if he perceives your opinion of gays to be negative or stereotypical. k-fed
Exactly. And there's a whole category of gay men called "Bears" who don't do any of those things--they're the manly ones. My ex is one of those--it doesn't mean he was overly macho either but that he's stocky and hairy and doesn't do any overgrooming of himself. Some of the men I dated after he left had more feminine qualities than he ever did and were happy to admit it. Now maybe I just have a really bad gaydar though.
Exactly. And there's a whole category of gay men called "Bears" who don't do any of those things--they're the manly ones. My ex is one of those--it doesn't mean he was overly macho either but that he's stocky and hairy and doesn't do any overgrooming of himself. Some of the men I dated after he left had more feminine qualities than he ever did and were happy to admit it. Now maybe I just have a really bad gaydar though.
You mean you've been with more than one gay man...?!
I had a guy friend in college I was not sure of...
The final clue was when he asked me to see how his
outfits for an upcoming trip looked. He had 4 "outfits"
layed out on a bed and wanted to know if they looked
good together...
He told me that same weekend...
I had a guy friend in college I was not sure of...
The final clue was when he asked me to see how his
outfits for an upcoming trip looked. He had 4 "outfits"
layed out on a bed and wanted to know if they looked
good together...
He told me that same weekend...
Any guy who uses the word "outfit" to discuss what he's wearing is gay. Us straight guys will never ever ever use the term "outfit" when talking about our own clothes.
I just found out that a kid that spent a lot of time at my house growing up
is gay. I did not see it when he was high school age at all.
None of my boys knew either. Are there signs at high school age??
I just found out that a kid that spent a lot of time at my house growing up
is gay. I did not see it when he was high school age at all.
None of my boys knew either. Are there signs at high school age??
Sometimes. About 20 years ago we had one kid come out his senior year. His friends yawned and said, "Yeah, so what else is new?". Other times it's a surprise, especially with some girls who have really, really liked boys. I had one girl who decided she liked girls because, in her words, "I'm tired of getting pregnant and having abortions". Tried to figure that reasoning out and couldn't as several of us had been talking to her about birth control for years.
That's what stinks about gay bars. Too many gays try to compensate with the 'Who is more conservative looking' contests. It's a major turn off. I don't want my boyfriend to look like my Dad or my economics professor. Gag.
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As for the whole manicure, pedicure, haircuts and clothes that doesn't necessarily mean your gay. Many men just like to look good and be well groomed! Hell Ozzy Osbourne wore make up as did Gene Simmons from KISS! gay? Some of you should go to a gay bar because a lot of them look like your father all conservative looking!
lmao because as a gay man this is so true! anything longer than a 5 second stare and we know what time it is! Most men are very uncomfortable with a silent stare from another man and women know this look because it's a sexual stare.
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I broke it off because I hated it. He move to Atlanta 2 yrs ago. Even though we are no longer a couple we still keep in touch. I asked him about it once a while back and he became very defensive. I could be overanalyzing this but I don't know. I guess I'm trying to see if it's normal behavior or if you think that he's gay.
