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We talked things out tonight. It wasn't pretty, and it wasn't all pleasant, but it was constructive. Compromise is what is needed. And there's no compromise without communication. If masturbating is a way of life for him, for his needs (regardless of me), then it all bottoms down to, if we want to cultivate this relationship, we learn to work together on the things that are important to us. Top priorities for me are honesty. If a high sex drive is high on his list, then we combine them, rather than butting heads leaving one of us being deceitful, and one of us being miserable.
I want to thank you guys again for all of your chiming. The different opinions of everyone was truly eye-opening. All I can say (and agree with) is, I hope you all find someone to live your life with that compliments your style, no matter how out of the ordinary it may seem to the rest of us. And God forbid, I hope you don't find yourself at the mercy of certain city-data members willing to chew you raw if you ask for help on here along the way.
He brought me flowers and candy, I bought him a porn-flick. We met eachother half way at the door on the way home. We'll make it, yet.
We talked things out tonight. It wasn't pretty, and it wasn't all pleasant, but it was constructive. Compromise is what is needed. And there's no compromise without communication. If masturbating is a way of life for him, for his needs (regardless of me), then it all bottoms down to, if we want to cultivate this relationship, we learn to work together on the things that are important to us. Top priorities for me are honesty. If a high sex drive is high on his list, then we combine them, rather than butting heads leaving one of us being deceitful, and one of us being miserable.
I want to thank you guys again for all of your chiming. The different opinions of everyone was truly eye-opening. All I can say (and agree with) is, I hope you all find someone to live your life with that compliments your style, no matter how out of the ordinary it may seem to the rest of us. And God forbid, I hope you don't find yourself at the mercy of certain city-data members willing to chew you raw if you ask for help on here along the way.
He brought me flowers and candy, I bought him a porn-flick. We met eachother half way at the door on the way home. We'll make it, yet.
Hey needle schlong...
I just know what I had and don't want what I have not
I found guys on the smaller end to have other inner personal qualities that do not mesh with me.
I don't settle for scraps or what I do not want. I guess that bothers people that do I don't think anyone should settle. Its why people cheat and get divorces. NOT because someone is hating on pron.
If I start thinking of other people its a sign that my relationship is not meeting my needs. Why keep it? Whats the point of keeping something you don't want?
If you dinner tastes like crap would you still finish the plate?
Whats the point?
Toss it out and get something decent!
Needle schlong? oh not me baby. That assertive Alpha piggish me would have that "assertive" woman posing with it, I would be assertive about it.
Well good luck finding that absolute perfect everything special someone I really truely wish it for you, it can happen but most of us are enticed by the good and forgive the flaws as long as the flaws are not a major deal.
As far as marylandkitten, from her photo and previous posts she is hot, she does not need to feel she is inadequate. Just try to realize what I said about the scenerio above and feeling ugly if you are reading think about that too. The alternative to not compromising on anything about a fault in a person that you meet is often perpetual loneliness and or remaining forever single.
We talked things out tonight. It wasn't pretty, and it wasn't all pleasant, but it was constructive. Compromise is what is needed. And there's no compromise without communication. If masturbating is a way of life for him, for his needs (regardless of me), then it all bottoms down to, if we want to cultivate this relationship, we learn to work together on the things that are important to us. Top priorities for me are honesty. If a high sex drive is high on his list, then we combine them, rather than butting heads leaving one of us being deceitful, and one of us being miserable.
I want to thank you guys again for all of your chiming. The different opinions of everyone was truly eye-opening. All I can say (and agree with) is, I hope you all find someone to live your life with that compliments your style, no matter how out of the ordinary it may seem to the rest of us. And God forbid, I hope you don't find yourself at the mercy of certain city-data members willing to chew you raw if you ask for help on here along the way.
He brought me flowers and candy, I bought him a porn-flick. We met eachother half way at the door on the way home. We'll make it, yet.
Have a good night guys.
Way to go Maryland - take it from the happily married posting here (like me!) - you are on the right track
For any cancellation, your husband sounds like one lucky man.
Ha!! My EX-husband, I'm sure, thinks he is VERY lucky.
Actually, sex was the always the "glue" of our relationship, before, during, and after our marriage. It kept us together probably longer than we should have been. Hell even after we split up, we were "together" for about a year. We confused the hell out of people. I do miss THAT part of marriage, for sure!!
Ha!! My EX-husband, I'm sure, thinks he is VERY lucky.
Actually, sex was the always the "glue" of our relationship, before, during, and after our marriage. It kept us together probably longer than we should have been. Hell even after we split up, we were "together" for about a year. We confused the hell out of people. I do miss THAT part of marriage, for sure!!
Sorry, I got confused. I'm sensing a lot more sex is on the way...
I'm glad MarylandKitten was rewarded with a happy ending after realizing the need to compromise. The problem with a lot of feminist women nowadays (unnamed parties in this thread) is they approach the world with "I'm a mofoing princess and you'll DO things my way and the way I SAY It because I'm the one that's got the vag---so HA!"
What they don't realize is that type of rebellious attitude only brings them temporary satisfaction because no man will be content with such an attitude. Men need to feel empowered (even if you don't really do so ) and need to be made to feel like a man. It is just the facts of life. "THAT'S NOT THE FACTS OF MY LIFE!" you say? That's fine. You can keep carrying on like a screaming chihuahua and indulge in your independence. While you are chasing perfectly good, normal men away, women who don't have the independence complex and who still feel confident with their femininity will be picking up the poor lad you've shoved aside and making him so thankful that he lost you.
Only if I can find a pic of a gazelle. I luv ya bro but that one was over my head.
Love ya back, bro
Signed:
Your brother-in-boobs (very much like brothers-in-arms, even one notch higher )
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We'll make it, yet.
I don't think anyone should settle. Its why people cheat and get divorces. NOT because someone is hating on pron. 
I do miss THAT part of marriage, for sure!! 
