If married, do you spend most of your free time with your spouse? (man, husband)

[CityGirl72]

I like to go out - my husband is a real homebody. So it's I either beg and plead to go out, or just let him do his thing while I do mine.

We have small children so we don't go out as much as I like - but we make time.

Plus he still has a league where he goes out once a month with the guys. And I love it cuz I actually get the house to myself.

[Twinkle Toes]

Okay, I'll admit it - I'm a golf widow.

[MizThree]

My husband and I both have our times with friends and family, but we'd always rather be togther for those things. We do just about everything together--from working on the truck to planting the garden.

[leavingcali]

I would say most of our spare time is spent together, but not all of it. Sometimes he'll go play poker, or hang out with the guys. Sometimes I will do stuff with my girlfriends or just stay in for some alone time. He is the person I enjoy being around the most by far, and he feels the same way about me, but I think it is healthy to have some alone time, or be with friends without the spouse every once in awhile. I would say 80-90% of our spare time is spent together.

[Miss Blue]

No..He likes to visit relatives and spend weeks at a time with them..I stay home..He plans every trip like a business venture, with an agenda and a time line..I like spontaneous..He is a couch potato, I am still a tomboy (at my age?)

[Yorkie_Mom]

I say hell no, he annoys me to no end, I would do anything just to get rid of him for the day, just so I wouldn't have to deal with him. If you want to know why, then read my thread on ready to spread my wings, and then you will know everything.

[Boof]

Originally Posted by leavingcali

I would say most of our spare time is spent together, but not all of it. Sometimes he'll go play poker, or hang out with the guys. Sometimes I will do stuff with my girlfriends or just stay in for some alone time. He is the person I enjoy being around the most by far, and he feels the same way about me, but I think it is healthy to have some alone time, or be with friends without the spouse every once in awhile. I would say 80-90% of our spare time is spent together.

Leavingcali, I fully agree! Very nicely put!!!

Boof

[NewToYorkSC]

My husband and I are best friends. Spend A LOT of time together. It is very rare that we do something that the other is not included in.

[kaykay]

My husband and I spend almost all our time outside work together. Sometimes I like to have some free time at the house just to do what I want to do, but most of the time I like to be with him. I really don't like it that much to go out in the evening with my lady friends unless he's also occupied.
I like it when we get together with another couple or go out together with a group of people, and we do that frequently.

[seahawksweetie]

Will be married 15 yrs this year. We spend almost all of our spare time together. We are sports junkies and travel to games and such together. It is rare that we are apart.