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Sex is a bonding process, you leave a bit of you with every partner, eventually there's nothing there for yourself or anyone else. This is one reason Christian ethics cautions against pre-marital sex .
Wise men understand, fools rush in as they say.
I've never had an overnight relationship. It takes time spent with that person, getting to know them, being together without sex for a few weeks before I even contemplate having sex with them.
do you take the girl seriously if you rush into bed with her right away? what causes you to do that? is it because you think she is hot, or because you think it's just a fling, or you think there is potential for a relationship and having sex at 3rd or 4th date is on par timing wise. or a combination of the above?
*right away i mean, not a one night stand, or on the first date, but maybe 3rd or 4th date.
in short, if she is a girl you are serious about having a LTR with, would you have sex this early on, or not?
I've never looked down on a woman for going all the way on the first date, or the second.
Its just a matter of chemistry, and if everything is firing on all 8 cylinders, then so be it.
I think where most women go wrong doing this, is the next mourning they want to make it clear that they don't normally do that kind of thing, and that they really want a relationship, and please don't think I'm a ****.
You get to emotional on the issues. If you just play it cool, and say that you had a good time, and would like to do it again soon, then you'd be an elite group of women in my opinion. You'd be one of those who is self confident enough to be able to sleep with someone on the first date, without needing verification from your lover that its ok.
I've never looked down on a woman for going all the way on the first date, or the second.
Its just a matter of chemistry, and if everything is firing on all 8 cylinders, then so be it.
I think where most women go wrong doing this, is the next mourning they want to make it clear that they don't normally do that kind of thing, and that they really want a relationship, and please don't think I'm a ****.
You get to emotional on the issues. If you just play it cool, and say that you had a good time, and would like to do it again soon, then you'd be an elite group of women in my opinion. You'd be one of those who is self confident enough to be able to sleep with someone on the first date, without needing verification from your lover that its ok.
many women (and some men) are masters at impression management.
get jobs with extraordinary ease.
she could be crazy as a bed bug and you would not know it till 4th or 5th meeting.
she could also be carrying AIDS. take the long way home buddy
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