Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Reply Start New Thread
 
Old 10-30-2009, 03:31 PM
 
Location: My Private Island
4,941 posts, read 8,325,557 times
Reputation: 12284

Advertisements

Speaking strictly for myself, I could not find myself attracted to anyone man who entertains bi-sexuality. Just does not do it for me. Even if he never "strayed" per se, the mere fact that he is open to it is a huge turn-off to me as a woman.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 10-30-2009, 03:31 PM
 
Location: Old Town Alexandria
14,492 posts, read 26,592,930 times
Reputation: 8971
I was wondering how a wife would handle a man who Is more attracted to guys than he may admit....I know some1 like this, nice guy but wife doesn't know; not judging, jut wanting to understand.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 10-30-2009, 03:36 PM
 
Location: Miami, FL
3,440 posts, read 5,717,541 times
Reputation: 2264
Quote:
Originally Posted by JustJulia View Post
Monogamy and bisexuality are not mutually exclusive. It's absolutely possible for someone who is bisexual to be faithful to one person. Just because someone likes men and women, that doesn't make that person more promiscuous or untrustworthy than anyone else. Sure, a bisexual man might cheat on his wife with a man ... the same as a heterosexual man might cheat on his wife with a woman. Some people have integrity and some don't, that's all.
Maybe not but some people are more hurt if their partner cheated on them with a member of the same sex.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 10-30-2009, 03:50 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
16,224 posts, read 25,664,027 times
Reputation: 24104
Bi-sexuality, does it ruin a marriage:

Well, I would hope to shout that you both have this one already figured out, BEFORE marriage.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 10-30-2009, 04:06 PM
 
Location: Old Town Alexandria
14,492 posts, read 26,592,930 times
Reputation: 8971
Apparently, some don't tell their wive, one wanted to date me, but explained his other attraction.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 10-30-2009, 04:10 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
16,224 posts, read 25,664,027 times
Reputation: 24104
Quote:
Originally Posted by dreamofmonterey View Post
Apparently, some don't tell their wive, one wanted to date me, but explained his other attraction.
Now, seriously...wouldn`t that be a hell of a note. To get married, and find out later... Geezzz---ussssssss!
Yikes~ I mean, if your into that, but at least your date told you beforehand, yeah...
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 10-30-2009, 04:28 PM
 
11,864 posts, read 17,000,344 times
Reputation: 20090
I don't see how you would think that. If a person is bisexual, that does not mean that they can't be faithful in a marriage. Liking men and women does not mean you have to have both, it just means you're open to the idea.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 10-30-2009, 04:29 PM
 
25,157 posts, read 53,943,694 times
Reputation: 7058
When you were a teen your uncles tried to sexually molest you? What sort of terrible punishment happened? Don't leave out the drama.

Quote:
Originally Posted by Antlered Chamataka View Post
Pretty much

When I was growing up, I used to be a cute little boy. This is during my teen days. A few uncles in my family sexually approached me and they got what they deserved, terrible punishment (if I detail them, you all will think I'm a psychopath). Had I told my dad, he would have personally amputated them

And I could tell they led a bisexual lifestyle. And their married life is still a misery. My mom recently told me two of them have separated from their wives.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 10-30-2009, 05:22 PM
 
Location: Old Town Alexandria
14,492 posts, read 26,592,930 times
Reputation: 8971
Someone I not reading my post; I didn't marry a bisexual; I am divorced, dating, and a guy I was interested in divulged that he has attraction to men.....I'm not judging him, he told me his wife never knew so he wanted to tell me at the outset.....I like him as a person but its not my thing...
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 10-30-2009, 05:26 PM
 
Location: So Cal
52,260 posts, read 52,668,250 times
Reputation: 52774
I'm gonna catch some some flack here, but I don't give a rip.

I don't believe in Bisexuality. IMHO those people are just confused.

Dice has a good line about it.

"You either suck d*** or you don't suck d***."
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
Similar Threads

All times are GMT -6. The time now is 09:33 PM.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top