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Originally Posted by FromTN2A2
I'm entitled to my opinion. I know I'm quite attractive. But if I have sex with a man simply because he tells me "Don't do this to me" (lmao while even typing such a line) , I would serve myself a lot of daily introspection to consider why in the heck I was so enamored by a mans words that it influenced me to give up something that is so valuable to me.
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Since you're attractive, I'll respond.
"Don't do this to me" works because it's what's going on in her head, and what's going on in mine. If, lets say, I'm on the way...but then I stop and say "Don't do this to me"...she might very well be thinking something similar, that maybe she wants me to stop, that I'm going too fast. So, she's curious as to what I meant. She figures out I meant it in the way I actually do (that, if I do fall for her, I don't think I'd be able to really give her what I think she'd deserve in a relationship, which would hurt her, which would hurt me), but in her mind she thought what I said was in the context of sex.
It's a nice barometer of where you are with her. She's forced to either choose to continue with what we were doing (or convince me that we should, which is the best part, lol) or it allows her to take a step back and ask herself if things are indeed moving too fast. Either way, it's a good thing because if she does continue, well, you're having fun, and if she doesn't, you've given her the space she needed.
Also, "sex" does not equal "your vagina". You don't "give up" sex. It's not yours to give up. It's ours to have. Your vagina is what you have control over. I'm glad you value it. I tend to, too.
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