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Old 11-04-2009, 06:21 PM
 
Location: Centro Tejas
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what i really learned was that sex is overrated
never!!!!!
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Old 11-04-2009, 06:22 PM
 
Location: Centro Tejas
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Lots of reasons. Nature didn't wire us with that. We have more responsibility and other things to think about with kids, family etc. Tired, treated like.....and then half the time women don't O anyway.

Girls who can't orgasm can blame it on their genes

So
Maybe you, but I NEED sex!!!!!!!!
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Old 11-04-2009, 07:52 PM
 
Location: Centro Tejas
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Ok, my opinion on this is : Men feel manlier if they get laid. Ever since they figure out at an early age they are supposed to hit on girls. There actually are parents who bring their sons hookers to 'make them men.' Men who are more confident in their manliness can go without sex without an issue (because the lack of sex isn't so depressing and such pressure for their mind). Men who think that sleeping with women often validates their manliness, will always tend to want to get sex from anywhere at any time, because they rely on being accepted by females for confirming their manliness. That's how come mid-life crisis sometimes makes men have affairs with younger women. It's not about the actual physical need for sex. It's emotional, they want to feel that they are still manly enough to keep up with -usually - a younger female. Unfortunately for our society, manliness seems to be measured in how many women you've had, how potent you are in bed and how much money you have.

Women on the other hand, can find the same confirmation by feeling like they are good mothers and good wives. So there's never so much pressure on them. Sex might be physically pleasant for them, but there isn't that emotional impact, their minds are at peace with the lack of sex. It doesn't make them 'less of a woman' to not have sex. It's usually the mind that makes it hard to last without sex. From a physical point of view, both men and women can go just fine without sex for a long period of time. That explains why some men are virgins till like 25..then after having a girlfriend they suddenly 'can't' last without sex. It's purely mental.

Just my 2 cents.
So I'm a guy trapped in a woman's body!
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Old 11-04-2009, 07:55 PM
 
Location: Centro Tejas
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I think that an average woman would be more up for Brad Pitt than the average man would be for any woman. Just look at strip joints for women or rock concerts. Its the women who are screaming and fainting. However most of us are no Brad Pitt. Its more winner take all on the man side.
I HAVE NEVER FAKE ONE!!!

Brad Pitt? Back in my days at TSC Great Lakes I did for over four hours a guy that could have been his illegitimate kid (see the bottom of previous page).

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Old 11-05-2009, 05:13 PM
 
Location: Mile High City
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3 YEARS???? WTF???? I can't even go three weeks without climbing the wall!!!! My ex and I went before we broke up for 4 months!!!!! I even thought of going lesbian. Luckily now I have a 23 year old who almost keeps up with me
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Old 12-24-2009, 11:03 AM
 
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There are women with high sex drives that aren't manly. It's more about how well a person knows their body and who they are with that increases this drive. Some women you are just not that into sex can have mental or physical road blocks or use this as an excuse to control a relationship. When there is a will there is a way.
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Old 12-24-2009, 01:07 PM
 
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I'm a man and this spring will be six years without sex. Thread over.

Damn dude get a hooker or escort or something.
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Old 12-24-2009, 01:55 PM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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damn dude get a hooker or escort or something.
lmfao!
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Old 12-24-2009, 09:39 PM
 
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It does seem like women can go with out it forever, but a whole lot of them r not willing to.
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Old 12-31-2009, 11:17 AM
 
Location: OCEAN BREEZES AND VIEWS SAN CLEMENTE
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Speak for youselves, hubby and I can go at it for 3 hours at a time, it is sensual, passionate, soft, romatic, and extremely long hot sex, we are not young any more maybe in our actions, we are in early 50's but you can teach a old dog new tricks! What ever makes on happy, in a relationship is all that really should matter in a relationship.
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