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Old 10-31-2009, 06:18 AM
 
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Default Are woman with no father or father issues more sexual?

Was reading the thread where people have gone years without sex and got to thinking.

The overwhelming majority of girls who do porn have issues with their father or no father. Based on this, if a guy had a high libido, would it increase the odds of finding a more sexual female if he focused his efforts on fatherless or had father issues?

I can see it now, a guy brings a girl out on a date and one of the first questions is "how's your relationship with your father?"
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Old 10-31-2009, 06:25 AM
 
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Of all the asinine things I've read in these forums.

Is it like that belief "Oh, that girl turned into a stripper. She must've been sexually abused by her dad."?

Correlation does not equal cause. It's like saying most girls who end up doing porn have father issues, so most girls who have father issues end up doing porn? No.

Look, if you're after an easy lay, just go to the bar and look for the girl with the biggest hoop earrings you can find. I've also had male friends tell me that girls who wear big cross necklaces are easy.
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Old 10-31-2009, 06:28 AM
 
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The biggest hoop earrings? lol ... really? Never heard that one before.

I'm not saying every girl who has father issues is a ****, but every single **** I have known without exception has had father issues ... sooo, makes you wonder. I think you're on to something here, JAG.
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Old 10-31-2009, 06:36 AM
 
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The biggest hoop earrings? lol ... really? Never heard that one before.

I'm not saying every girl who has father issues is a ****, but every single **** I have known without exception has had father issues ... sooo, makes you wonder. I think you're on to something here, JAG.
Ha ha-but yes. All of my male friends (the types who frequent bars and like to "take the ladies home") have all told me that girls who wear big hoop earrings and/or big cross necklaces are a guaranteed lay.
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Old 10-31-2009, 06:55 AM
 
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Of all the asinine things I've read in these forums.

Is it like that belief "Oh, that girl turned into a stripper. She must've been sexually abused by her dad."?

Correlation does not equal cause. It's like saying most girls who end up doing porn have father issues, so most girls who have father issues end up doing porn? No.

Look, if you're after an easy lay, just go to the bar and look for the girl with the biggest hoop earrings you can find. I've also had male friends tell me that girls who wear big cross necklaces are easy.
**note to self** NEVER wear your favorite hoop earrings again.
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Old 10-31-2009, 07:24 AM
 
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**note to self** NEVER wear your favorite hoop earrings again.
Also, Hoop earring's plus a necklace with a big cross ..... unless you're feeling in the mood for love.

From my experience... Strippers or porn stars or anyone in the sex business does it for the money. It's not about a missing father but purely a business decision. That's why I don't become a porn star, once you make it a business you lose the recreation part of it all.
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Old 10-31-2009, 07:37 AM
 
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Also, Hoop earring's plus a necklace with a big cross ..... unless you're feeling in the mood for love.

From my experience... Strippers or porn stars or anyone in the sex business does it for the money. It's not about a missing father but purely a business decision. That's why I don't become a porn star, once you make it a business you lose the recreation part of it all.

I never wear big and/or elaborate earrings with an equally striking necklace. It's one or the other otherwise I look swamped. Well unless I'm performing in which case those rules do not apply.

I guess I should answer the OP. I suppose it could be said that I had Daddy issues in that he wasn't around much and when he was he had his own problems. As a teenager I very much wished that he'd been a different father. As an adult I can see that he couldn't be anything other than who he was at that time.

Did his behaviour impact on my sexuality? Sure but there's nothing to say that if he'd been different that things wouldn't have turned out the same for me.
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Old 10-31-2009, 08:10 AM
 
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would this be correct assumption then?


women who have had good relationships with their fathers ARE PRUDES

If a women starts talking about how good of a relationship she has with her parents (mainly father) , should be a RED FLAG...


Run away..... right away .. unless you want to have an 8 month relationship and still have not had sex or got a bj..

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Old 10-31-2009, 09:08 AM
 
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Of all the asinine things I've read in these forums.
Mission accomplished! Pressure's on, I need to come up with thread you find more asinine...I think I got one

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Correlation does not equal cause. It's like saying most girls who end up doing porn have father issues, so most girls who have father issues end up doing porn? No.
Not even close to my point. Point was would it increase the odds, nothing more...

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The biggest hoop earrings? lol ... really? Never heard that one before.

I'm not saying every girl who has father issues is a ****, but every single **** I have known without exception has had father issues ... sooo, makes you wonder. I think you're on to something here, JAG.
Didn't that actress in the show my two dads wear big hoop ear rings?
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Old 10-31-2009, 09:27 AM
 
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Was reading the thread where people have gone years without sex and got to thinking.

The overwhelming majority of girls who do porn have issues with their father or no father. Based on this, if a guy had a high libido, would it increase the odds of finding a more sexual female if he focused his efforts on fatherless or had father issues?

I can see it now, a guy brings a girl out on a date and one of the first questions is "how's your relationship with your father?"

I think there is some truth to this, but I also think that it really depends upon how sex ed. was communicated to the child. In other words, did mom and dad enjoy it? Or, was it a hush-hush subject. Was mom comfortable with her body, or was it her worst enemy. Was self-discovery (masturbation) allowed or at least not treated like a sin, or was it a big no-no?

Hormones have a lot to do with it also. I've noticed that women who have more PMS-type symptoms before menstruation tend to be more sexual, too.

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