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Old 11-02-2009, 06:48 PM
 
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Why don't you call his girlfriend....go out for a few drinks together....and BOTH of you dump him. If he is playing two women at the same time....it isn't as though he's a big prize or anything.
Yeah but how can we say he is actually playing both of us though?

Can I ask, a guy who hangs out with me every Saturday, calls me (not texts) almost daily, takes me on vacation, and goes out to the nightclub with me while his X is also at the club...I mean, is there not some benefit of the doubt here?
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Old 11-03-2009, 10:17 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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Joei
Experience is wisdom.

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I know, I know...and thats why I broke up with him earlier last month. Then few days later we sat on the phone and discussed the issue for like 2 hours, him saying he has no intention on continuing that relationship. The very next weekend he invited me on vacation with him over the weekend. That was 2 weeks ago

Some of you ask me, why? Well because I've known people over the years who moved in together, the relationship fell apart and due to a lease, they were still living together. No kids. No marriage. I seen it happen to my best friend, it almost happened to me twice. I almost moved in with guys, and then the relationship ended.

So I give him the benefit of the doubt. There's no drama cause I never visit him at the house anyway. not with me atleast.
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Old 11-05-2009, 12:34 PM
 
Location: Virginia Beach
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Lets not get to huffy and puffy over little things. He's not good enough for you and that's that. If he decides to call you back then you can take it from there.
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Old 11-05-2009, 01:49 PM
 
Location: Baltimore
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Joei-

From one of your earlier posts, where a guy from three months ago texted you, doing the math, you only gave yourself a month of recovery between him and your new "ex". Are you scared to be alone for a bit? Especially knowing that he is or was living with his ex? Something like that usually throws a big red flag, but you chose to overlook that; could it be out of the desperation of simply wanting to be in a relationship?

I think you should take everyone else's advice and be alone for a while. Reap the benefits of being single. Go out, party, flirt with guys, do whatever you want. Neither of you owe the other anything after only dating for two months.
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Old 11-05-2009, 06:51 PM
 
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Bless.....dump the idiot and find someone who actually gives a sh*t about YOU. Not his EX. You shouldn't have to work for his attention.
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