Would you get married again?

[MissNM]

My hubby goes out with his friends and spends half the night calling me - not to spy on me or bug me, but to let me in on what all is going on! I hear every funny story and feel like I'm there.

We both do our own thing, but can't wait to get home and share it. Isn't that just plain weird?

Whatever you do - marry your best friend. No nagging, no ownership.

But as I said once before, he's still my last husband.

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by thebobs

get the wife's makeup mirror, set it up, and plug it in, make the bed, get the wife's lunch ready, pack her duffle bag for work. So yes I'm up and running around to get my wife ready so she doesn't miss her train

Wow!

At night if she gets too hot, rather than just take the blanket off of her, she'll throw it off which hits me and wakes me up. Same thing when she uses two pillows, when she switches to one, she'll throw it on top of me. She's also very noisy at night. Just going to the bathroom she won't be quiet.

Do you think she's awake and conscious while doing all this stuff? If so, I agree it's very inconsiderate.

The only night I ever slept good was the night before our wedding, I slept at my parents house in my old bedroom. That was the first and last good nights sleep I had since we moved in together.

Yeah, different sleeping habits can be a problem. Even though ideally I prefer sharing a bed, in such a case I wouldn't mind separate bedrooms.

Originally Posted by thebobs

Several wives means several times of the month and God help you if they all happen at the same time.

Ha-ha, I'm not sure if it's true, but the proverbial THEY say that women who spend a lot of time together tend to get their periods synchronized!

Originally Posted by Coolhand68

Part of that is me though, I like my space and I'm an independent person. I don't mind compromises, but I don't like being told what to do or having to account for where I'm going and when I'm coming back every time I walk out the door.

I can relate to that as I'm the same way. Perhaps some of us are not meant to be married. However, I don't mind giving freedom and breathing space to the other person as well. I'm a woman, but I find some women's constant calling and keeping men on a leash appalling.