Do girls want men to dance with them at bars? (women, attractive)

[himain]

I like to dance by myself. That way there's no bs going on. If I want to dance with someone, I'll make it known..

[malamute]

Originally Posted by Brown Leather Jacket

When you're out at the bar and their playing music, either from a band or a DJ, you'll see a lot of girls dancing, either by themselves or with other girls. Do girls want to dance with other guys?

Sometimes you'll see some guy just walk up to a girl and start dancing, but it's hard to tell if they already know eachother or not. Do girls need to "know" some dude a little bit before they start dancing? How do you get to know a girl when there's loud blaring music? Or can you skip all that for later?

Keep in mind, I'm talking about girls who're out to have a good time and have had a drink or two, so ladies, don't respond what "daytime" you would do.

All you can really do is ask -- and they'll say yes or no.

[Brown Leather Jacket]

Originally Posted by miu

By how you dress and act. Maybe it's time to lose the brown leather jacket. And a rich guy will have an air of confidence from knowing that he's a great catch as a boyfriend or husband. How much money do you make?

And... are you super model good looking?

What if it's designer leather? My leather jacket cost me more than some suits when I got it.

I've always considered myself pretty average looking, but I did model for only a small fashion show once and I've been asked to work at Abercrombie, so I guess someone thinks I'm good looking.

[Brown Leather Jacket]

Originally Posted by 1984vt

If a group of girls are dancing together, don't go up and start dancing with them unless you can dance, and or, you have the personality to pull it off. Mostly, girls that are dancing together want to dance with each other. If I were a guy and saw one that I was interested in, I would wait until they weren't dancing and then ask her to dance, or just talk to her.

It's so hard to talk to girls in clubs though. You have to get really close either way because the music's so loud you practically have to scream in eachother's ear.

[miu]

Originally Posted by Brown Leather Jacket

What if it's designer leather? My leather jacket cost me more than some suits when I got it.

I've always considered myself pretty average looking, but I did model for only a small fashion show once and I've been asked to work at Abercrombie, so I guess someone thinks I'm good looking.

So why not try to date an average looking girl? I think that one of your main problems is that you are trying to date women that are much better looking than you, but you don't have the confidence, charm and wallet to pull it off. Stay within your league and you'll find it much easier to find a girlfriend. Or... style yourself up better and do the things necessary to make yourself more desirable to beautiful women who get asked out a lot by many men, and ones that are better than you in terms of looks and money.

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by miu

By how you dress and act. Maybe it's time to lose the brown leather jacket. And a rich guy will have an air of confidence from knowing that he's a great catch as a boyfriend or husband. How much money do you make?

And... are you super model good looking?

haha right to the point.

[Raena77]

I love dancing and yes I liked if a man came up and "could" dance. But I can't stand those pervert men that want to grind. That's highschool stuff.

[Mr.Cat]

Originally Posted by Brown Leather Jacket

First of all, how is a girl you've never seen or talked to before dancing in a busy bar going to know if you're rich or not?

Dude, just walk up to her and ask her for the dance. You'll find out afterwards. Now, if you don't know how to dance then you're in deep crap.

[crbcrbrgv]

Originally Posted by Brown Leather Jacket

What if it's designer leather? My leather jacket cost me more than some suits when I got it.

I've always considered myself pretty average looking, but I did model for only a small fashion show once and I've been asked to work at Abercrombie, so I guess someone thinks I'm good looking.

Did they ask you to work on the floor or in the back? And was the fashion show in New York City or Pocatello, Idaho?

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by crbcrbrgv

Did they ask you to work on the floor or in the back? And was the fashion show in New York City or Pocatello, Idaho?

Nice. crbcrbrgv. But yes gimma a pic let us be the judge? ok?