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Old 11-08-2009, 02:44 PM
 
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I don't think my husband is sexually attracted to me anymore, and I would really like to change that.

What is the sexiest thing a woman can do for a man? What is the sexiest thing I can wear to bed (color, type of lingerie, etc), around the house, out on a date? What could we do on a date that would be sexy?

What drives men crazy?

Looking for some male opinions!
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Old 11-08-2009, 02:52 PM
 
Location: Iowa, Heartland of Murica
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A woman who has a high sex drive and likes to initiate things is great. I have never had a partner who was like this but I am sure there are some out there.
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Old 11-08-2009, 03:44 PM
 
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I don't think my husband is sexually attracted to me anymore, and I would really like to change that.

What is the sexiest thing a woman can do for a man? What is the sexiest thing I can wear to bed (color, type of lingerie, etc), around the house, out on a date? What could we do on a date that would be sexy?

What drives men crazy?

Looking for some male opinions!
Hi fortwaynecutie,

Look fertile. This can be done naturally through diet and exercise and artificially with make up, dress and hair. Get his butt in the gym as well since flab reduces his sex drive. Alter the routine and shock him to cause an unusual opportunity mental state.

It might help.
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Old 11-08-2009, 04:13 PM
 
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Garter belts, sexy outfits...men are so visual.
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Old 11-08-2009, 04:25 PM
 
Location: US
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You can buy and wear the sexiest lingerie in the store but if your body doesn't match it will do about as good as **** on a bull.


Have you gained weight since you've been together? Developed any unattractive habits?
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Old 11-08-2009, 04:31 PM
 
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You can buy and wear the sexiest lingerie in the store but if your body doesn't match it will do about as good as **** on a bull.


Have you gained weight since you've been together? Developed any unattractive habits?
Can I just say even bigger girls can look GOOD in lingerie?
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Old 11-08-2009, 04:33 PM
 
Location: southern california
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rip up all her credit cards and throw them in the trash. i kid you not --sheer erotic behavior.
next best develop a love of culinary art and want to share in the kitchen work.

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Old 11-08-2009, 04:33 PM
 
Location: Northern NH
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Be interested in him and have his back
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Old 11-08-2009, 04:35 PM
 
Location: West Chester, Ohio
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Lots of things for me, but, I love to see a woman putting on lip gloss (there's just something about that, grrrrr) and eyeliner.
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Old 11-08-2009, 04:45 PM
 
Location: Lafayette, Louisiana
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Is your husband into sports? Is his favorite team winning or losing? There was a study done that showed sports fans whose team is winning had a higher level of testosterone. Men whose teams were loosing had a lower level of testosterone. If he is into sports then go with him to his favorite team's game. If it's not close to home, make a weekend trip of it including staying at a nice hotel room. If his team wins and you share in his excitement then that excitement will carry over to the bedroom. Another potential problem could be stress he's feeling at work. Such stress will lower his sex drive. Does he spend a large amount of time viewing internet porn? Check behind him to see what he's looking at to see what he's interested in. If he's spending too much time on internet porn this his sexual gratification is being transferred from you to the images online.
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