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Old 11-10-2009, 08:46 AM
 
Location: Brooklyn, New York
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Is it true that Men change when they are cheating on someone?

If so, would anyone be able to relate to any of those signs and also is it true that a Woman always knows when a Man is unfaithful?

How So? Besides the norm: man changing on her, smell of anther woman on him, gut feeling.

Please Share... I need some help in deciding if I am losing my mind, overreacting to a gut feeling or what?
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Old 11-10-2009, 09:17 AM
 
Location: Falls Church, VA
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There are several threads that can give you some ideas...
I think what you have mentioned are generalizations... of course only you can tell wether your SO has changed, but they usually do...
they are not responsive to you any more.
they get tons of phonecalls and they don't share who it is or they get defensive if you ask.
working late all of the sudden.
little changes on his habits, like all of a sudden he wears cologne, or dresses nicer, or pays more attention to others opinions of him, his appearance.
introduces something new to your sex life, not that this is bad, but you can tell he wouldn't have known if he wouldn't have just learned it...
This are just my own experiences though...
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Old 11-10-2009, 09:18 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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If your name is Elizabeth and you are in the middle of giving him the best BJ of his life, he moans "Oh Carol! That feels SOOOOOO good!" He's cheating!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Old 11-10-2009, 09:20 AM
 
Location: Brooklyn, New York
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There are several threads that can give you some ideas...
I think what you have mentioned are generalizations... of course only you can tell wether your SO has changed, but they usually do...
they are not responsive to you any more.
they get tons of phonecalls and they don't share who it is or they get defensive if you ask.
working late all of the sudden.
little changes on his habits, like all of a sudden he wears cologne, or dresses nicer, or pays more attention to others opinions of him, his appearance.
introduces something new to your sex life, not that this is bad, but you can tell he wouldn't have known if he wouldn't have just learned it...
This are just my own experiences though...

Thank You so much for your response. It really does help me feel a little bit better but still curious
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Old 11-10-2009, 09:23 AM
 
Location: Falls Church, VA
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Thank You so much for your response. It really does help me feel a little bit better but still curious
You are welcome
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Old 11-10-2009, 09:24 AM
 
Location: Falls Church, VA
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If your name is Elizabeth and you are in the middle of giving him the best BJ of his life, he moans "Oh Carol! That feels SOOOOOO good!" He's cheating!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh boy!!! this would just be a HUGE give away, wouldn't it? unfortunately it never is this easy to figure/find out...
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Old 11-10-2009, 09:28 AM
 
Location: Deep in the heart of Texas
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Go with your gut feeling. It never fails.
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Old 11-10-2009, 09:29 AM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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Is it true that Men change when they are cheating on someone?

If so, would anyone be able to relate to any of those signs and also is it true that a Woman always knows when a Man is unfaithful?

How So? Besides the norm: man changing on her, smell of anther woman on him, gut feeling.

Please Share... I need some help in deciding if I am losing my mind, overreacting to a gut feeling or what?
What are some of the signs you are seeing that makes you think he is cheating on you?
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Old 11-10-2009, 09:30 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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Oh boy!!! this would just be a HUGE give away, wouldn't it? unfortunately it never is this easy to figure/find out...
Hey! You didnt think I was actually going to give away a bunch of us guys secrets did you? I still have my man card and I intend to keep it!
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Old 11-10-2009, 09:32 AM
 
Location: Falls Church, VA
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Hey! You didnt think I was actually going to give away a bunch of us guys secrets did you? I still have my man card and I intend to keep it!
of course!!! lol...
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