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Old 11-11-2009, 11:25 AM
 
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Becasue of problems Ive had with my boyfriend lately, whenever he asks specifics as to when Ill be over to his house, I think he's trying to make time to cheat. Last couple of times this came up in conversation, to my knowledge, he wasn't trying to meet up with somone else, but I do feel this way. I think it's only a question of time before he meets someone else whom he determines to be better and leaves me for her. But I feel he has to date her a little first before he lets me go because he is , I believe, uncertain he wants to stay together. Though mostly because of our s*ex life, I think, he is also uncertain he wants to end it. He started to ask me about plans for upcoming holidays and I am thinking he's trying to see if I may leave town for a couple of days so he can make plans. Am I being paranoid?
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Old 11-11-2009, 11:35 AM
 
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Do you really want to find out? Then cut the sex life out.
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Old 11-11-2009, 11:40 AM
 
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You mean he'll cheat quicker if it's all s*ex? Not sure I understand the answer but I appreciate the response.
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Do you really want to find out? Then cut the sex life out.
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Old 11-11-2009, 11:42 AM
 
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Oh, U mean Ill find out if he wants to end it. He said out of his own mouth he doesn't know what he ants to do, Im just wondering if Im being paranoid him asking what tIme Im arriving, etc.
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Old 11-11-2009, 11:47 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Im just wondering if Im being paranoid him asking what tIme Im arriving, etc.
I don`t think there is anything wrong with him asking you what time you will be arriving, etc. but, if you feel in your heart that he is cheating, then why not just make a surprise visit?
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Old 11-11-2009, 12:05 PM
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Location: MA/NH
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Becasue of problems Ive had with my boyfriend lately, whenever he asks specifics as to when Ill be over to his house, I think he's trying to make time to cheat. Last couple of times this came up in conversation, to my knowledge, he wasn't trying to meet up with somone else, but I do feel this way. I think it's only a question of time before he meets someone else whom he determines to be better and leaves me for her. But I feel he has to date her a little first before he lets me go because he is , I believe, uncertain he wants to stay together. Though mostly because of our s*ex life, I think, he is also uncertain he wants to end it. He started to ask me about plans for upcoming holidays and I am thinking he's trying to see if I may leave town for a couple of days so he can make plans. Am I being paranoid?
Why do you think so poorly of yourself? Why would you think that there is a better woman to be his girlfriend out there?
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