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I understand. I've been there before too. We should start a thread describing everyone's most bizarre sexual encounters. haha, I got a couple "post bar" doozies...
When your partner is a great partner in every way, except in the sex department.
How would you handle it if after all the talks and effort, it became clear that things were not going to change/go back to what they once were?
IMO, the are NOT really a "great partner in every way" if after talks and effort things werent going to change. A big part of sex is communication. Letting the partner know what you enjoy and how you enjoy it. Getting back to the "great partner in every way" thing that you mentioned also means that the partner is willing to do what it takes to make the other happy and also this partner takes great joy and is also just as happy, satisfied and pleasured in the fact that they CAN and DO do the things to make their partner happy.
If it takes "talks and effort" then they really arent a great partner in every way.
Of course there are some questionable sex acts that people will not do. Heck, there are some things that I flat out refuse to do but the fact that I have a "great partner in every way", she understands why I will not do these certain things so she suggest others that I would be more than willing to do.
A man ending a relationship because of "bad sex" just sounds unrealistic to me.
Any sex is good sex. All we really need is friction.
And no wonder we have a 50% divorce rate in the country. This one thing and you end an otherwise loving relationship? (Assuming all other factors are fine.) Ridiculous. If you want something better, tell your partner and work at it. Practice until you get it right. Quitters.
To some degree I really understand what you are saying. To another I can state from experience, not all sex is good sex. Sexual Compatibility is not a myth, it is a reality. I like the idea of practice until perfect, but there are things which cannot be solved with practice.
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