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Old 11-14-2009, 02:03 AM
 
Location: Happy in Utah
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I have been in the abusive relationship, the guy was a monster, and yes he came off as the nicest guy in the world. Part of you wants revenge but at what cost, you will only make him look better in the long run if you do so. Why waste any more of your breath on this guy, seriously you deserve better,. The best revenge is to move on and have a good and happy life.
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Old 11-14-2009, 03:40 AM
 
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Just in case it hasn't sunk in yet I will go back to your original question:

Can I get in trouble for sending something to someone's workplace against their wishes?

The answer is YES.
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Old 11-14-2009, 03:03 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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Just in case it hasn't sunk in yet I will go back to your original question:

Can I get in trouble for sending something to someone's workplace against their wishes?

The answer is YES.
I hear the hush of silence?
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Old 11-16-2009, 04:46 AM
 
Location: In my skin
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Just in case it hasn't sunk in yet I will go back to your original question:

Can I get in trouble for sending something to someone's workplace against their wishes?

The answer is YES.
Thank you, that IS the whole point of this, isn't it?

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I met him volunteering. He is the one getting paid to do "God's work." I did it for free. I've done other volunteer work for free. He is the one who parlayed it into salvation. I just thought it was a good thing to do. Obviously, I do remember the address. What I don't have is his HOME address, or I wouldn't bother dragging it into the workplace.

I'll let it go when I tell him I know what he's been doing.
Do you think he doesn't already know what he's been doing? Do you think you have busted him to where he's going to stop? You didn't have the power when he was with you, you sure as heck don't have it now that he is free of you.

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I think the biggest hell of all has to be carrying around the pic of a beautiful 6 year old girl, your own flesh and blood, who is flawless and the picture of himself (in his words, and I've seen a pic of her and she IS precious) knowing she is not in your life. I don't get how a man can live with that. It's a whole other topic for another thread, but I don't understand it. This is part of why I think he is so warped.

This is part of what I've never understood. He goes through life with accolades for searching those out on riverbeds, and yet denies his daughter.

Well, I've never had it in me to say this to him before, but I just may.
You have known all of this all along and chose to stay with him, what did you expect? He won't even honor his own daughter, what did you think would happen with you? I get that you are angry, but I'm willing to bet you are more angry with yourself for allowing yourself to be taken. This is your ego lashing out and operating on pride and ego never ends well.

You asked for opinions. You don't seem to approve of anyone who tells you that it is a sign of instability to engage in the kind of behavior you are proposing; it is. It is not smart, it is not logical and it is not representative of someone who wants to be done with him. Do what you will, but when all is said and done, it won't be enough. He'll still be a loser scamming the next chick and you'll be miserable with less options than you had before.
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