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Inspired by a thread where a woman is going psycho on her ex-boyfriend...
Have YOU ever taken revenge on an ex? If so, how did it feel? Were you there to see your ex's reaction when the revenge happened? Did his/her facial expression make it all the sweeter, or did you suddenly realize you had done something you shouldn't have?
Most I ever did:... went into a karaoke next to a place I'd been at one night. The karaoke was new and the staff kindly accepted my request to check out the facilities. I went to the largest karaoke room and recognized a distant relative of mine. He and his pals had been drinking.
I walked in and noticed there was a woman sitting on one of the karaoke couches staring at me. I was on my feet, talking to my relative, when I finally turned to her and looked at her. It was a woman who'd broken up with me in a pretty rotten manner.
We locked eyes for a few moments and she quietly and reluctantly waved "hi" with her hand. I stared at her for a few more moments and turned away without acknowledging her greeting. I talked a bit more to my relative (who I now knew to be in the same social circle as her) and walked out.
As I walked out from the corner of my eye I saw her. She was looking down on the floor, looking a bit dejected.
I never needed to - people like that usually do themselves in you don't need to help them.
I did mention in the other thread a book I read called "Make Em Pay" by Hayduke and in it are some completely hilarious cases of revenge and some that are pure evil. He even has a section where you can buy supplies for some of these acts.
I found that my happiness was enought to p^ss my ex off. Just the thought of the person your in love with being happier alone then with you is enough punishment to make them feel crappy. After I broke up with my ex (after years of being unhappy) and was able to get on my own 2 feet by myself, my happiness made him jealous and a little bitter. Turns out the only thing I had to do was be in this life for me! HAHA (I'll find someone to share my time with when the time is right though...sharing is caring!!!)lol
A very, VERY attractive woman I know told me she once executed revenge on one of her ex's. She didn't tell me what he'd done to get her mad, and she didn't detail her revenge. But she said she was right in front of him when the revenge happened, and she gave him a look of, "ha you sucker. How do you like THAT?"
However, her anger and satisfaction evaporated the moment she saw - and digested - his facial reaction. She wouldn't specify, but I gathered he was not only unhappy, but surprised and quite hurt.
I found that my happiness was enought to p^ss my ex off. Just the thought of the person your in love with being happier alone then with you is enough punishment to make them feel crappy. After I broke up with my ex (after years of being unhappy) and was able to get on my own 2 feet by myself, my happiness made him jealous and a little bitter. Turns out the only thing I had to do was be in this life for me! HAHA (I'll find someone to share my time with when the time is right though...sharing is caring!!!)lol
Your story reminds me of one of my ex's. 3 years after I broke up with her, I was dating somebody else. In the early stages, and it was going well, until one day the new girl told me she had had met one of her closer girlfriends... and the girlfriend knew me, and had dated me, and said negative things about me.
My relationship with the new girl went downhill. I guess to the ex, revenge was telling my new girl, "Sprawling is a bastard. Don't date him."
Your story reminds me of one of my ex's. 3 years after I broke up with her, I was dating somebody else. In the early stages, and it was going well, until one day the new girl told me she had had met one of her closer girlfriends... and the girlfriend knew me, and had dated me, and said negative things about me.
My relationship with the new girl went downhill. I guess to the ex, revenge was telling my new girl, "Sprawling is a bastard. Don't date him."
Aww I'm sorry that happened to you! I would never bad mouth my ex to anyone (well I'll vent but no names need to be involved its not fair to him). People are so easy to take "revenge" on another person...very hateful
Aww I'm sorry that happened to you! I would never bad mouth my ex to anyone (well I'll vent but no names need to be involved its not fair to him). People are so easy to take "revenge" on another person...very hateful
Ah it's ok. It was quite early, so very little had been invested.
Besides, the new girl and I parted ways, and we actually met a few more time after that - and the new girl never mentioned my ex/her close GF again. But the fact I had once dated her very close GF definitely played a role... on that night she wouldn't stop talking about it.
A female friend later told me it was jealousy and even hurt that made my new girl back off - and it was a desire not to see me happy that led my ex to do this. Especially considering I might have ended up happy with a friend of hers.
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(I'll find someone to share my time with when the time is right though...sharing is caring!!!)
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