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Old 11-16-2009, 04:15 PM
 
Location: Wherever I want to be... ;)
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As odd is it might sound, I don't know if I could be attracted with a guy with large muscles. Especially on his arms. I just think it's kind of gross, and indicative of someone that probably spends too much time worrying about what he looks like.
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Old 11-16-2009, 05:05 PM
 
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As odd is it might sound, I don't know if I could be attracted with a guy with large muscles. Especially on his arms. I just think it's kind of gross, and indicative of someone that probably spends too much time worrying about what he looks like.
i dated a guy whose upper arms were larger around than most people's thighs. HUGE. He never worked out, and he was not vain. His profession was working with heavy equipment and machinery, so he was very strong from work. I thought it was really sexy. He could pick me up like I was a feather. I loved it! He was a very quiet gentle person, very soft-spoken and humble. I liked that about him.

I agree with you though about staying away from those vain folks who spend too much time at the gym worrying about their muscle definition. ick.
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Old 11-16-2009, 05:11 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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I just think it's kind of gross, and indicative of someone that probably spends too much time worrying about what he looks like.
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I agree with you though about staying away from those vain folks who spend too much time at the gym worrying about their muscle definition. ick.
Here's to the vain Antlered Chamataka

Went to the gym yesterday at 9:45 am and came home by 12. Then went again at 7pm and stayed till 8
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Old 11-16-2009, 05:30 PM
 
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i dated a guy whose upper arms were larger around than most people's thighs. HUGE. He never worked out, and he was not vain. His profession was working with heavy equipment and machinery, so he was very strong from work. I thought it was really sexy. He could pick me up like I was a feather. I loved it! He was a very quiet gentle person, very soft-spoken and humble. I liked that about him.

I agree with you though about staying away from those vain folks who spend too much time at the gym worrying about their muscle definition. ick.
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Here's to the vain Antlered Chamataka

Went to the gym yesterday at 9:45 am and came home by 12. Then went again at 7pm and stayed till 8
It's strange! I know that many (perhaps most) women would find that sexy/attractive, but to me muscles are just a complete turn off! Just the look of them! LOL
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Old 11-16-2009, 05:30 PM
 
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Cheers to that!

Stay vain dude...It looks good on you!
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Old 11-16-2009, 06:20 PM
 
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I was going to agree with bad teeth , then I started thinking about flaking infectious scalp issues...

But NOW I'm going to divert and go with the "schlong". Size or any of that crap isn't a dealbreaker - it's the circumsized/uncircumsized debate, and after saying good bye to an ex (and all his uncircumsized smelly crusties that accumulated around it that smelled like cheese ) I stick with my decision!
This is the most disgusting thing I have heard in a looong time.
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Old 11-16-2009, 06:21 PM
 
Location: southwest TN
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What bodypart is a deal-breaker -

Missing a brain - absolute deal-breaker.
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Old 11-16-2009, 06:22 PM
 
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Teeth. Clean, relatively straight and none missing.
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Old 11-16-2009, 07:15 PM
 
Location: Houston
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Sorry if this offends, but if a man is more than 1 inch shorter than me, I just can't deal. I wish I had the confidence, but I don't. I am just getting used to being taller than my man when I wear heels (which isn't often). If I towered over him all the time, I would just be uncomfortable. FYI, I'm 5'10", so I have definitely limited my options.
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Old 11-16-2009, 07:28 PM
 
Location: Orlando, Florida
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Odd physical features can be part of what makes a person unique and interesting, but height is a big issue with me. I just feel weird if I'm out with a guy who is shorter than me or I have to wear flat shoes so we stay even.
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