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You hear more and more people claiming the Gold Digger alibi when the woman that the guy is attracted to is not interested in him.
Believe me, there are millions upon millions of gold diggers out there, and have been out there since the beginning of time.
But men also like to blame their received rejections on gold digging women.
The truth is, for every 100 gold digger claims, there is probably a significant portion that just rejected the guy - and if they were to find the right guy for them, they wouldn't necessarily have gold digger traits - on the contrary - if the dude's got his **** together and can keep her comin back for more, he doesn't have to be rich monetarily.
Even for women looking for long-term... gold digging can sometimes equate to "loser elimination". And loser does not necessarily equate to "middle-class lifestyle".
Just sayin' based on my discussions with my girlfriend and all of her single and looking girlfriends... they just want smart guys, relatively good-looking, take care of themselves, good in bed, and who are not unemployed/precariously employed losers. And no, the women are not past their expiration date.
Why is that gold digging? It's not.
i hope women who think like u find what u seek, because real love comes from the heart not society's ways of belief
My personal observation is a person who doe snot have much, wants someone with more than she has. Somebody who has a something, the man does not necessarily have to be on her level financially.
Basically most gold digger chicks are barely making it themselves. On the other hand I've observed in the Metro DC area, successful women with their own money, dating men that were "beneath them" financially speaking.
You need to get yourself in the mix. Bump up your number on the speed dial.
Much appreciated, but I'm still able to fall, get up, dust myself off, and pull myself by the straps on my own! I even manage to fall back in the same puddle again occasionally!
Yea, I agree. I find that the men who complain the MOST are the ones that are always short in the fiat currency. It's just a no brainier that a female would find a man with money/power attractive. For one, she has a ticking bio clock and it's only right that she can find/attract the best provider for her child. Though, today, it's difficult to weed out the real providers because it's easy to appear to be financially successful (e.g., rented cars). Heck, I remember when I was dirt poor, and had no job, at one point, but still drove a 60-70k Benz that belonged to a friend regularly.
Why does the man have to be the provider? Are woman still to weak to get their own jobs? I thought woman wanted equal rights. A man who is rich may be a good finacial provider but may not be able to provide love or a good father figure.
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I even manage to fall back in the same puddle again occasionally!
