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Old 02-11-2010, 07:02 PM
 
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Honest to God, I don't understand how some find this exciting! Having to tell your life story over and over again to dozens of people just ain't my idea of fun!
Obviously, that's why I got bored. Why can't women skip the getting to know each other part and jump straight to bed?
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Old 02-11-2010, 07:04 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Obviously, that's why I got bored. Why can't women skip the getting to know each other part and jump straight to bed?
Well, the longish "getting to know" stage happens when they're not attracted to the men enough!
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Old 02-11-2010, 07:06 PM
 
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Well, the longish "getting to know" stage happens when they're not attracted to the men enough!
Or if you are an idiot like me and refuse to make a move and then she cheats on you.
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Old 02-11-2010, 07:07 PM
 
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At least the ones who are paid for do what a guy wants, pretend to enjoy and don't complain. Perfect solution.
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Old 02-11-2010, 07:10 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Or if you are an idiot like me and refuse to make a move and then she cheats on you.
You don't strike me as somebody too shy to make a move, dear!
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Old 02-11-2010, 07:11 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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At least the ones who are paid for do what a guy wants, pretend to enjoy and don't complain. Perfect solution.
Whatever floats yer boat...
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Old 02-11-2010, 07:16 PM
 
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You don't strike me as somebody too shy to make a move, dear!
Is this good or bad?
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Old 02-11-2010, 07:18 PM
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Honest to God, I don't understand how some find this exciting! Having to tell your life story over and over again to dozens of people just ain't my idea of fun!
yeah i hate this too. my mind is very progression oriented. like i graduate high school, go to college, get a job, get a better job, etc. or i take up a hobby, get better at it, become a pro at it. these things rarely move backwards.

i love meeting new people and hearing their stories. while i have lots to tell myself i dont really enjoy telling them to a date because ive heard 'em all before and have probably told them quite a few times. kinda like im always moving forward then backwards and repeating
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Old 02-11-2010, 07:20 PM
 
Location: Arlington, VA
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Apparently I cant keep a relationship going for more then 3 weeks (my longest relationship) and it seems like every girl Im interested in only "wants to be friends" (a very poor excuse btw because after I try to talkthe mas a friend the yall ignore me) or they in a very sublte and cowardly way tell me to eff off and never talk to them again

I always check out girls who I'd be interested in but I dont bother talking to them because I know they won't like me, I feel like Im not good enough for any girl and that no girl wants me.

I've decided to just give up on love as dating has become too painful as I see all these undeserving men get all the girls I like. I've tried to develop who I am and change things for the better but like everything else it has backfired. People are starting to think Im gay because of my horrible luck with women and thats making me question my own sexuality now

I'm just curious has anybody ever given up on love and became celibate like what I'm planning on doing?
Unless you look like Brad Pitt, women aren't going to make any effort. You have to.
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Old 02-11-2010, 07:38 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Is this good or bad?
It all depends on whether they have the hots for ya or not! If they do - it's all cool; if they don't - you're a creep! We've discussed this before!
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