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I can honestly say that I've spent plenty of time with the girls and with the guy in bars and I've never once been hit on. Anywhere. Not once. I am married now so its not a big deal, but it just suprises me that there are people out there getting picked up on in public. Ladies do you get hit on a lot? Guys do you really approach women in public? It has never happened to me.
Yes, I've been approached in public, even with my husband with me. I can tell, though, they are not the kind of guys I would be interested in. (at least from what I could tell)
I can honestly say that I've spent plenty of time with the girls and with the guy in bars and I've never once been hit on. Anywhere. Not once. I am married now so its not a big deal, but it just suprises me that there are people out there getting picked up on in public. Ladies do you get hit on a lot? Guys do you really approach women in public? It has never happened to me.
Hi MsRiss7383,
Is that hot blond in the photo you? Its not that.
Its probably body language and venue. If were it were a social setting and you had welcoming body language you would be approached. Being married is not a good time to know this though. If its any consolation, I finally was good at picking up girls so I picked one up married her and can't use it like that anymore. So I just hit on my wife. Try it out on your husband.
Usually my wit is quick and sharp with jerks but this guy really gave me a creepy vibe so didn't want to provoke him. I just said no thanks and hurried to my car.
Like another poster said, not all attention is good attention.
I can honestly say that I've spent plenty of time with the girls and with the guy in bars and I've never once been hit on. Anywhere. Not once. I am married now so its not a big deal, but it just suprises me that there are people out there getting picked up on in public. Ladies do you get hit on a lot? Guys do you really approach women in public? It has never happened to me.
You're blonde w/ blue or green eyes, and a pretty smile.
You are the typical all-American girl.
You never got hit on? Not calling you a liar, but either men got scared or intimidated or perhaps you were not approachable. Based on your face alone, most men would at the very least look. I know I would.
Hi.... I know this is an old thread but just had to chime in.... I was at McD's the other week. Had time to myself and was going to do some shopping. An attractive man set next to me, we chatted...about my husband no less!, He left, was having car trouble and waved me over to his car.... I shouldnt have gone over but was curious as to what he wanted.... Turns out he me wanted ME!... He started telling me that he found me attractive and wanted to "share" some time with me and touch me as I touched him... While I was intrigued and a bit flattered, I politely told him I appreciated his flattery I wasnt interested. PLEASE tell me that this does or doesnt happen to the average woman
When my best friend and I are out guys are always checking us out, and majority of the time, one of those guys will come up say something. To someone else it would make them think "damn I'm fine as hell!" but honestly it doesn't really mean anything. At least not to me it doesn't.
I guess because most of the time those guys are telling other girls the same thing, so it's nothing to really think about.
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At least every other time I'm out with my GF or a female friend she gets hit on by at least one guy. Some nights it is non stop, and she's not a tall blonde type at all.
If a woman told me that she never got hit on in public, I would think of two things:
1. she is lying
2. she probably has been hit on but she didn't recognize it happening.
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