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Old 03-19-2010, 02:23 PM
 
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^ I can't even count how many times I've seen 'the other woman' as far less attractive than the wife. I think a lot of the really attractive ones have a false sense of security and let their guard down sometimes--in other words, feel they dont have to try as hard to keep their men happy. Hey, don't jump down my throat, men do the same thing to us--don't try once they think they have us.
I know this is old but I agree. Look at Hugh Grant. If Elizabeth Hurley isn't enough for you then it must be about much more than looks.
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Old 04-16-2010, 11:09 AM
 
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Default women who only want taken men

What do you think of women who only want to pursue taken men? What would you do if someone (e.g. random person, ex-fling, etc.) was trying to entice your man?
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Old 04-16-2010, 11:14 AM
 
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What do you think of women who only want to pursue taken men? What would you do if someone (e.g. random person, ex-fling, etc.) was trying to entice your man?
IF she can take him from me, she can have him.
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Old 04-16-2010, 11:14 AM
 
Location: Kuwait City, Kuwait.
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Old 04-16-2010, 11:19 AM
 
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What do you think of women who only want to pursue taken men?
Women love competition.
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Old 04-16-2010, 11:20 AM
 
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The only beneficiary will be the man. Getting it from both ends, literally.
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Old 04-16-2010, 11:22 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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What do you think of women who only want to pursue taken men? What would you do if someone (e.g. random person, ex-fling, etc.) was trying to entice your man?

Women who only pursue married men are on a power trip - it's all about ego.

I would imagine they are really very insecure people who need this kind of activity in order to quit feeling so small and pitiful.

It's a bit like someone on PCP or some other powerful drug, while involved in the activity they imagine they are more powerful than they really ever will be. Women like this are sad, pathetic creatures.

If you think someone like this is trying to get their hooks in your man, play it smart. Don't go getting all huffy or show that you feel threatened - that just increases her pleasure. LAUGH at her instead to deflate that big ego of hers. Then behind closed doors have a conversation with your guy to make sure he's aware of what she's all about and that you and he are in agreement on what's going on.
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Old 04-16-2010, 11:24 AM
 
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IF she can take him from me, she can have him.

LOVE your attitude, and you are so right!

This is the kind of self-confidence you have to have in these situations. Especially when you are in a strong secure relationship, it is easiest to just laugh about the absurdity of some woman even trying this.
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Old 04-16-2010, 11:26 AM
 
Location: Kuwait City, Kuwait.
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If I was married and women flirted with me deliberately to nick me off my wife and try and wreck our home, then I'd flat out call them out on it. I would make them feel so small and pathetic that they wouldn't know where to turn. I'd strip off their confidence and shatter their ****ty low self-esteem.
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Old 04-16-2010, 11:37 AM
 
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If I was married and women flirted with me deliberately to nick me off my wife and try and wreck our home, then I'd flat out call them out on it. I would make them feel so small and pathetic that they wouldn't know where to turn. I'd strip off their confidence and shatter their ****ty low self-esteem.
My what a good hubby you'd be!
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