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I think it depends on whether or not I am really tired and just need to feel close, or if i have plenty of energy and am in the mood. Either way, a lot of the time cuddling turns in to more anyway. Perhaps if more guys would learn they need to take time out to show they care either before, or after, their women would be more inclined to "give it up" more often? That part could be interpreted many ways, from giving massages, running her a nice bath, or as someone mentioned letting her have 1/2 hour to nap while you take care of the baby. It really isn't rocket science.
I never denied my husband but he only touced me once we got to bed. Sometimes he would tell me before hand that he wanted to fool around that night, before going off to do whatever he was doing. He wasn't into PDA's, cuddling on the sofa, holding hands, making out, hugs, or anything like that. Even when we had sex regularly I felt neglected. It was just his way.
Things would be easier, if we actually could put ourselves in the other persons shoes for awhile. It is often hard to know just what the other person is experiencing. If we did, it would be much easier to fill their needs.
I hope to find a woman who has a compatible sex drive, I guess 4-5 times a week would really be AWESOME but I have met very few women would be OK with that. I just broke up with my girlfriend of 6 years and incompatible sex drives was a major problem in our relationship. I don't understand how some women may think any man would be OK with doing it maybe once every six months or once a year. I find that pathetic!
Things would be easier, if we actually could put ourselves in the other persons shoes for awhile. It is often hard to know just what the other person is experiencing. If we did, it would be much easier to fill their needs.
This is so true. That is where communication comes in. Something a lot of people, both men and women could learn to do a little better for the sake of their marriage.
sex should make you feel good, not be the casue of an agruement.
I get tired of looking at my wife's back every night.
She doesnt like to be awaken
Visiting thru the backdoor is verry Nice Bro...
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