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What I mean is too many people get either angry, stressed or saddened over a relationship not going well. The cases can be for many reasons ranging from your spouse becoming bored, getting cheated on, you being the cheating and wasting time beating yourself for it, less attention, etc.
I don't think there's any need to be sad about it. Whenever I ended a relationship with a boyfriend for either of the reasons stated above the next day I would go to a frat party and from that moment is like I forgot all about the ex b/f. Same went for all the other break-ups.
Not sure if this happens to anyone. You not feeling depress, confused nor even taken by surprise.
Some people takes days, weeks, months or in certain cases a couple years to recover from an already dead relationship. However, with me, none of this seems to happen. It's like I can forget the next day and go on partying if invited.
When certain ex b/f's split up with me and later on wanted to back expressing how it was a mistake that they still loved me but what can I do? I couldn't help it but just tell them the truth, that I already forgot about them and simply wasn't in love at all, not even chemistry was there. This always happens. I forgot them easily after break-ups.
What I mean is too many people get either angry, stressed or saddened over a relationship not going well. The cases can be for many reasons ranging from your spouse becoming bored, getting cheated on, you being the cheating and wasting time beating yourself for it, less attention, etc.
I don't think there's any need to be sad about it. Whenever I ended a relationship with a boyfriend for either of the reasons stated above the next day I would go to a frat party and from that moment is like I forgot all about the ex b/f. Same went for all the other break-ups.
Not sure if this happens to anyone. You not feeling depress, confused nor even taken by surprise.
Some people takes days, weeks, months or in certain cases a couple years to recover from an already dead relationship. However, with me, none of this seems to happen. It's like I can forget the next day and go on partying if invited.
When certain ex b/f's split up with me and later on wanted to back expressing how it was a mistake that they still loved me but what can I do? I couldn't help it but just tell them the truth, that I already forgot about them and simply wasn't in love at all, not even chemistry was there. This always happens. I forgot them easily after break-ups.
I suppose I may try but in the end, not many will take it. I must then have a special talent because not once did I ever got hurt in a rocky relationship going bad. It was like nothing happened at all.
Or seek therapy for some kind of detachment disorder
So I got a disorder? Didn't know that. Interesting why would I be detach if I have many friends in college and quite popular at work too. Like relationships, if a friendship doesn't work go on to making new friends.
Because back from the stone age times, Women had to experience child birth, and the high rate of infant mortality. So Nature gave them the ability to have a child, have it die, bury it, and get right on back to work, without losing their minds. Something like that would kill a Man. Only Men truly fall in love for life. Women can take it or leave it.--In my opinon.
So I got a disorder? Didn't know that. Interesting why would I be detach if I have many friends in college and quite popular at work too. Like relationships, if a friendship doesn't work go on to making new friends.
No, you don`t. She just meant that you are able to disconnect so easily.
No, you don`t. She just meant that you are able to disconnect so easily.
Right In all seriousness, I suspect our new friend has never been head of over heels in love, that's all. Once you have deeply, passionately fallen in love with someone there is no skating off scott free - it hurts, even if you are the one doing the breaking up.
No, you don`t. She just meant that you are able to disconnect so easily.
Yes that's almost happened and it's like I can simple forget a rocky relationship or friendship that didn't worked out. If an ex b/f were to again show up by my door saying he still loves me, I would have to tell him the truth and say I don't really feel anything for him.
All of my example I mentioned for causes in break-up happened and I wasn't even startled one bit.
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Originally Posted by lovesMountains
it hurts, even if you are the one doing the breaking up.
I would like to think that way but when I would be the one dumping, it was the same as changing to another TV channel and next day was party time.
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In all seriousness, I suspect our new friend has never been head of over heels in love, that's all. Once you have deeply, passionately fallen in love with someone there is no skating off scott free - it hurts, even if you are the one doing the breaking up.
