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I am glad that she enjoys sex. I feel like me and her had a very enjoyabloe sex life. Recently ever since i let her know this was bothering me, we have agreed to quit until marriage ; )
Well if you do decide to stay with her YOU BOTH need to get tested periodically for STDs. Some STDs don't show up immediately and once they do, it's too late to do anything about it.
Rakin, thats what im worried about. She is genuinely a beautiful person. It was so hard for her to tell me. She was so ashamed of it : ( I feel like with the whole issue, its up and down up and down. Sometimes i can deal with it, and sometimes it eats at me inside.
Ever heard of forgiveness ? You have had how many partners ?
How is your 4-6 any different from her 12-15 ?
Let it go. She is with you now and may never have sex with anyone else again in her whole life.
You are reading too much into this. Having a lot of sexual partners does not mean anything except that your girlfriend enjoys sex. In today's society men are not thought of badly if they are promiscuous, but women are. This is an antiquated belief that what sits between a woman's legs is made of gold! Balderdash!
Kudos to the woman who can separate sex from love and is not afraid to go out there and have a good time. Most women are so messed up emotionally and psycologically because they have been lied to that "nice girls" don't enjoy sex, and they are accused of being cold in marriage when they cannot allow themselves to enjoy relations with their husband because of the stupid double standard.
Be so glad that you have an experienced woman who knows how to please you and MOST OF ALL - IS NOT AFRAID TO BE HONEST WITH YOU ABOUT HER PAST. She sounds like a fantastic person. You should thank your lucky stars.
She has not been tested for STI's but has had a gyno visit. I knew she had multiple partners from the get go. We had been friends throughout college ; ) I really need help with how to let this girl down easy. I seriously care about her, and dont want her to ever think that she isn't good enough b/c of her past. Any advice on this would be greatly appreciated.
Long time listener, 95% chance that my next girlfriend will not have this many partners. The average for guys in the class was 6-7
Well 14 guys is a lot, but if you are one above the average, so let's say 8, then some people may think that's a lot. Personally, ya'll both have had a lot of partners in my opinion, relationship or not. If its something that really bother's you and you can't move past it, then I say move on and don't waste each other's time any further. At least she was honest with you, my friends and I had this conversation and quite a few of them have lied to their man about how many partners they've been with.
Long time listener, 95% chance that my next girlfriend will not have this many partners.
Why not? It seems that you have something in you that attracts experienced women.
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