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Old 12-11-2009, 02:21 PM
 
Location: Northside Of Jacksonville
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Funny you should say that because thats exactly where they come from! Thats the problem now we are always looking instead of waiting for the partner that was designed just for us! good things come to those who wait.
That's the thing, let him find you In the meantime, just do you.

 
Old 12-11-2009, 02:22 PM
 
Location: Orlando, FL
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Originally Posted by calipoppy View Post
-Learn how to relinquish "control" over each and every situation and let the man in your life to be a man


Signed,

A Really Good Black Woman
this one took me forever to learn...i still slip every once in awhile but i'm working on it. i hate the way he looks when he tells me "I told you I would handle it"
 
Old 12-11-2009, 02:54 PM
 
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With white women
 
Old 12-11-2009, 02:55 PM
 
Location: Coastal Mid-Atlantic
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This wont be popular, But why does it seem like the single black guys are trying to re- populate this earth. I have noticed this over the last 10 years or so. I see it all the time. We had a guy come in to work for us last week, one of the guys knew him, and he told us this guy has 10 kids from 6 different women. I have seen this countless times. Something else, and it wont sound good either. Most married black guys have a girl or two on the side. I see this everyday where I work. Some are brave enough to have them come by at lunch. Just my observations. I do see why the black dudes are going for the white girls. The guess the sistas are just tired of their Sh*t, and the white girls haven`t yet caught on what is going on. In the end they too will be left with a bunch of kids and no support. Future thugs waiting to happen.
 
Old 12-11-2009, 03:01 PM
 
Location: 2nd state in the union...
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This wont be popular, But why does it seem like the single black guys are trying to re- populate this earth. I have noticed this over the last 10 years or so. I see it all the time. We had a guy come in to work for us last week, one of the guys knew him, and he told us this guy has 10 kids from 6 different women. I have seen this countless times. Something else, and it wont sound good either. Most married black guys have a girl or two on the side. I see this everyday where I work. Some are brave enough to have them come by at lunch. Just my observations. I do see why the black dudes are going for the white girls. The sisters are just tired of their Sh*t, and the white girls haven`t yet caught on what is going on. In the end they too will be left with a bunch of kids and no support. Future thugs waiting to happen.
I think you're right...probably won't be really popular.

And it's really kinda racist too. You think men of any other color don't do the same thing?!?!
 
Old 12-11-2009, 03:05 PM
 
Location: USA
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Maybe all of the good Black men are with all the good White and Hispanic men hiding in distant caves from all women of various color on an aggressive, salivating, desperate manhunt. Stop walking around like Captain Hook and they'll come crawling out.
 
Old 12-11-2009, 03:14 PM
 
Location: Iowa, Heartland of Murica
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I am not Black and not racist, but it seems like cheating or having 3, 4 women at the same time is much more accepted amongst Blacks than with other races. Also, so many Black men don't give a damn about being a good father, I know it is stereotypical but on TV, they always show those Black guys jumping up and down when they realize the child is not theirs. I am not saying this is exclusively a Black thing but there is a total lack of values and morals with the culture, I see the same behavioral patterns with uneducated, small town White folks and Hispanics.I would say, ignorance and lack of morals and values is the problem!
 
Old 12-11-2009, 03:15 PM
 
Location: Orlando, FL
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I am not Black and not racist, but it seems like cheating or having 3, 4 women at the same time is much more accepted amongst Blacks than with other races. Also, so many Black men don't give a damn about being a good father, I know it is stereotypical but on TV, they always show those Black guys jumping up and down when they realize the child is not theirs. I am not saying this is exclusively a Black thing but there is a total lack of values and morals with the culture, I see the same behavioral patterns with uneducated, small town White folks.
Uneducated being the key word when describing this type of behavior.

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As an aside...if I was a betting woman....I'd say this thread will last til 5pm eastern time.
I should have taken that bet
 
Old 12-11-2009, 03:30 PM
 
Location: 2nd state in the union...
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I should have taken that bet
I didn't specify the day! lol j/k
 
Old 12-11-2009, 03:45 PM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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Originally Posted by xsthomas View Post
This wont be popular, But why does it seem like the single black guys are trying to re- populate this earth. I have noticed this over the last 10 years or so. I see it all the time. We had a guy come in to work for us last week, one of the guys knew him, and he told us this guy has 10 kids from 6 different women. I have seen this countless times. Something else, and it wont sound good either. Most married black guys have a girl or two on the side. I see this everyday where I work. Some are brave enough to have them come by at lunch. Just my observations. I do see why the black dudes are going for the white girls. The guess the sistas are just tired of their Sh*t, and the white girls haven`t yet caught on what is going on. In the end they too will be left with a bunch of kids and no support. Future thugs waiting to happen.
Where's your proof besides your work environment?

I like white women and I am a black man, any problem with that?

You best believe that white men, especially the ones who wear business suits have made the term 'mistress' a very popular word.

Or what about old white men who go overseas and get loads of 20 something year old women?
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