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Yeah .... I kinda wondered about that too. I thought maybe there's another People magazine - one we don't know about??? How can seeing pics of Brangelina with their 26 kids every single week be considered porn???
Wow!! I am amazed at the answers here and no wonder the world is going to hell in a handbag. This laxidasical, no big deal attitude is why this country and the divorce rate has skyrocketed.
I am not sure if most of these posters are male or female but personally I think too highly of myself to "PUT UP" with some guy using me after he puts a mental image in his mind of some naked woman who is fake and a complete stranger. Bottom line.. if I am not good enough for my man then he can go elsewhere because I believe that men in porn need therapy. I would prefer to be alone than with a man who looks at filth and that is what porn is. Additionally, I don't respect men who look at porn nor do I want to be with a man who does porn EVER, PERIOD...
Additionally in response to the person who said that ALL men look at porn, that is nonsense. Maybe a good percentage of them do but there are men of integrity that have trained themselves to be in control and do the right thing. Men that love women in an honorable way and treat women with dignity, respect and TRUE LOVE. I admire these kinds of men and they totally turn me on. They are men that I esteem and hold in the highest regards.
To say that ALL men look at porn is to say that everyone likes burgers and fries or everyone likes the color red...that is ridiculous and ignorant.
Raelyn28, I'm with you. Although I would always chose the real thing over a fantasy (porn) I never though porn was a big deal until I did some research on the actual industry.
The porn industry preys on men and women who come from broken homes and need money to live and eat. Many wind up using drugs or even going as far as committing suicide because they can't deal with the lifestyle and they have nobody to turn to. Really, the suicide rate in the porn industry is sky high. Unfortunately, telling people the truth falls on deaf ears because people are so diconnedted from each other today. RIP Shauna...
something a gentleman should want to do to/with his wife.
Yeah..... I know.
I am a decent, affectionate, considerate responsible guy. I like to be lovey dovy and romantic sometimes, kissy kissy an all that but sometimes I just want to indulge in carnal dirty body objectifying sex.
I don't want to think of oh I love and respect her I just want to gratify animalistic desire even if deep inside I do respect and care for her I don't want to be made to feel guilty for letting go.....
You'd choose fantasy over a real live person? Sad.
Hell yeah, with only 6 months in, She isnt even allowed to tell me to lift the lid, let alone tell me how I spend my own time. Why is that sad. Ive been married for 17 years and my wife couldnt give a rip what I do, as long as its not with a real person other than her.
I am a decent, affectionate, considerate responsible guy. I like to be lovey dovy and romantic sometimes, kissy kissy an all that but sometimes I just want to indulge in carnal dirty body objectifying sex.
I don't want to think of oh I love and respect her I just want to gratify animalistic desire even if deep inside I do respect and care for her I don't want to be made to feel guilty for letting go.....
What?
I always found that so lame that guys have "wife boinking" vs. what they really want.
Whats the point?
To avoid emotional guilt and concern? Sounds loving.
Or is it just a lack in communication and pure honest connection....
I always found that so lame that guys have "wife boinking" vs. what they really want.
Whats the point?
To avoid emotional guilt and concern? Sounds loving.
Or is it just a lack in communication and pure honest connection....
Well, much like a girl can label a guy as "too nice" a guy can label a girl as that too. Look what was said above "no gentleman would do to his wife". We guys don't always want to be a gentleman, at least not most. Yeah emotional guilt, it happens. There are some women who come across as so prim and proper and moralistic that while those are good traits to tell her "get on your knees because I want you to (fill in the blank)" and" I want to (fill in the blank)" and then "bend over because I'm gonna (fill in the blank)" her niceness prevents a guy from expressing what he really wants. At least that is the position I have been in before. Funny, she may want that but who knows but it doesn't seem "right" to bring it up.
Well that would tell me its not a good match and I should not be sharing that type of relationship with them. Right?
I mean...I know there is some extreme crap out there...and if my boyfriend wanted to do some nasty 2girls one cup...I DO NOT want that person anywhere near me,let alone sleep with them.
So basically guys that like porn will fake it to make it and avoid being compassionate & communicative?
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How can seeing pics of Brangelina with their 26 kids every single week be considered porn??? 
WAKE UP PEOPLE AND SMELL THE COFFEE!!! 
. This laxidasical, no big deal attitude is why this country and the divorce rate has skyrocketed. 
They are men that I esteem and hold in the highest regards. 
