Any guys here have a thing for tomboys? (man, call, definition)

[Lucario]

Originally Posted by gwynedd1

I probably couldn't out run her especially now, and if I could, I wouldn't.

Sometimes, it's better just to let them catch you.

[gwynedd1]

Originally Posted by Lucario

Sometimes, it's better just to let them catch you.

Hi Lucario,

That was what I was thinking. Some of those sprinters are goddesses.

[DennyCrane]

Originally Posted by gwynedd1

Hi DennyCrane,

I think people have tastes and it has little to do with fear. We like what we like. The only real insecurity is when one does not go get what they want. As I said, I like many types of girls, but it was the ones who liked who they were who are the best of them. I liked tomboys and real "girlie" types for different reasons. Ideally I like one who can be casual and then dress up. Variety is nice.

A person's tastes have little to do with fear, but the reactions of others to someone else's preference are often based on fear and insecurity. For example, some guys like skinny women, like Kiera Knightly skinny. I personally don't get the attraction, but I don't judge people who have that preference nor do I infer anything about them based on it. But I'll often hear other people say that such men secretly must like boys. I don't know if the people who say this sort of thing really believe that or they just say it to feel superior. But that's how that person's comment that I was responding to came across. People do have different tastes. A lot of times, like in the case of LaoTzuMindFu, a person has a preference that the rest us might not share or even understand. But why do others automatically have to infer something about you based on what you like? I think that speaks volumes about that person who's making that claim.

[Danbo1957]

Sure, a girl who can hang with the boys is great.

[TKramar]

I'm not really interested in boys of any sort...sorry.

[Sunflower_lol]

At some point, I'm sure there will be a feminine side showing up no more how ''tomboyish'' is the woman. There's always something girly (unless she's a transgendered) within each one of us. Don't get so worked up about boring emotional flicks, don't wear make-up at all, hate dresses, can sometimes appear all rough but then there's the soft side when it comes to cats. I would stop by and cuddle it like I was having a baby on my arms and off course the very long hair.

[undertheironsea]

Originally Posted by Trimac20

I didn't want to put 'masculine women', because that conveys the wrong idea, although I think 'tomboy' more refers to girls rather than women.

Anyway I kinda dig it...not so much really butch women whom you have to look at their chests to even KNOW they're women, but those who have 'male' interests, aren't too into makeup, don't cry at every soppy movie or even like 'chick flicks', not JUST that, but also have an adrogynous edge, and don't always have to play the 'female' in the relationship.

I like variety and appreciate different types of women - really girly/femme ones can be appealing, but at other times more androgynous women seem to have more sex appeal to me.

Anyone in the same boat as me? lol

No thanks. Not my cup of tea.

[Lamplight]

Originally Posted by Mr.Cat

I think tomboys are cute up to a certain point. Femininity is one of the virtues God gave women so why hide them.

I agree. I love tomboys as long as there is still a feminine side there. Unfortunately this has led me to mistake a lesbian for a tomboy, as some of you saw in my thread.

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by JustJulia

Hahaha! That picture made me laugh. Those chicks, and the Girls Next Door mentioned in another post, are simply girls trying to get their sexy on for men. There's nothing wrong with that, but a tomboy is girl who behaves like a boy. Boys don't run around in pink sparkly underwear or bleach their hair until it's white. That's pure girly-girl and anathema to a tomboy.

Exactly! What a joke!

That's more like it:



http://media.thestar.topscms.com/ima...7bed368b2.jpeg



http://images.usatoday.com/money/cov...-14-tomboy.jpg

[Trimac20]

Originally Posted by Repubocrat

Are you guys a bunch of sissies or what? If you have a thing for tomboys, it usually means that you want to be dominated. Hmm, kinda weird but whatever floats your boat! You will look cute cooking for her in a maid uniform while she watches the football game.

You just described my fantasy .

But seriously, being a tomboy or a man for that matter doesn't mean you always have to dominate. Personally I prefer things to be a little more equal, not more always dominating/initiating and the other just taking it. I would expect that of any kind of lady.