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View Poll Results: Which would you choose?
$130k with restrictions 25 53.19%
$40k with a normal life 22 46.81%
Voters: 47. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 12-18-2009, 01:08 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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I would think that go pretty far for a single person anywhere in the Carolinas, save maybe the NC Triangle.

Then again, if you're saying you'd have to be paid more to be serially single for 15 years, I certainly understand.
No it's definitely comfortable! Altho after taxes it's more like 80k. LOL. And yes I was saying if I had to make concessions I'd want a lot more than that!!!! LOL!!
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Old 12-18-2009, 01:46 PM
 
Location: In my view finder.....
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#1 fits me to the letter.




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Which would you choose? Assume you live in a major metropolitan area.

Two options only:

1. $130,000/yr income to start is guaranteed for the next 15 years and a raise indexed for inflation every year, but you absolutely cannot have a relationship with the opposite sex. You can date though, and have sex but no commitments, no marriage and no kids.

2. Maximum $40,000/yr income BUT the rest of your life is normal.

Assume you are currently exactly 34 years old.
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Old 12-18-2009, 01:50 PM
 
Location: Sputnik Planitia
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Sex with no commitment, no marriage, no kids? Gee, do you think many guys would go for this option? You can probably drop a zero or two from that figure and we would still jump at that option.
So you're implying that most guys place little if any value on commitment, marriage or kids?
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Old 12-18-2009, 02:04 PM
 
Location: MichOhioigan
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So you're implying that most guys place little if any value on commitment, marriage or kids?
Actually now that I think about it, a lot of women too!
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Old 12-18-2009, 02:21 PM
 
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Which would you choose? Assume you live in a major metropolitan area.

Two options only:

1. $130,000/yr income to start is guaranteed for the next 15 years and a raise indexed for inflation every year, but you absolutely cannot have a relationship with the opposite sex. You can date though, and have sex but no commitments, no marriage and no kids.

2. Maximum $40,000/yr income BUT the rest of your life is normal.

Assume you are currently exactly 34 years old.
In the scenario listed above I would choose choose number 1. But I would prefer the status quo to both choices.
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Old 12-18-2009, 02:44 PM
 
Location: USA
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#1 would not provide normalcy to me whatsoever because I would go into it knowing better. I'd be miserable. Forget the husband, give me the 'flavors of the week.'
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Old 12-18-2009, 06:40 PM
 
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Choice # 1 would be for me. Can't stand kids plus money is beneficial. I would be able to finish paying my college years and then proceed on getting my master's or doctorate's.
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Old 12-18-2009, 06:45 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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$130k isn't that much
And, conversely, $40K isn't that little. Perspective is an interesting thing.
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Old 12-18-2009, 07:17 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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I would be serially single even if I was flat broke without a pot to p*ss in!
And yet you don't leave your pot in order to live your dream, dear...
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Old 12-18-2009, 08:06 PM
 
Location: NY metro area
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And, conversely, $40K isn't that little. Perspective is an interesting thing.
40K in a major metropolitan area IS very little. Especially if you have a family.
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