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Old 12-19-2009, 10:17 AM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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She always publicly mentions her boyfriend and what should she get him for Christmas but still finds a reason to touch me and rub on me and always wants my attention. It bothers her when I don't talk to her and last night at the company holiday party she wanted me to dance with her. I said no since i'm kind of shy but she pulled me out on the dance floor and forced me to dance with her. I did the best I could on the dance floor to make her night but was sooooooo uncomfortable and was so relieved when it was over. Why be in a relationship if you are going to act like this toward another guy? That's why I'm so afraid of commitment. So it looks like she is sexually attracted to me and may want to have sex with me which is so wrong.
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Old 12-19-2009, 10:18 AM
 
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..And we're off...
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Old 12-19-2009, 10:23 AM
 
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Just say, "while you mention you have a b/f, I can't help but notice your friendly openness towards me. If you wish to go further we need to discuss the appropriate course of action."
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Old 12-19-2009, 10:29 AM
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Just say, "while you mention you have a b/f, I can't help but notice your friendly openness towards me. If you wish to go further we need to discuss the appropriate course of action."

I may have to-lol I'm defintely not used to this type o0f attention from a woman who is involved with another guy.
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Old 12-19-2009, 10:34 AM
 
Location: DFW
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Maybe she sees your inexperience as a challenge and feels you need a little assistance. Could be she just wants you for NSA hot sex.

When in doubt, ask. A Little communication goes a long way.
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Old 12-19-2009, 10:36 AM
 
Location: On the Chesapeake
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I may have to-lol I'm defintely not used to this type o0f attention from a woman who is involved with another guy.
Or any other woman for that matter. At least not without, doubt, fear, angst, trying to decide if she's dating material or just an ejaculation assistant, or having to post questions about on the internet.
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Old 12-19-2009, 10:36 AM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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I may have to-lol I'm defintely not used to this type o0f attention from a woman who is involved with another guy.
Oh come on, Grasshopper, you're not used to this type of attention from a woman period.

18 days and counting.
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Old 12-19-2009, 10:40 AM
 
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She always publicly mentions her boyfriend and what should she get him for Christmas but still finds a reason to touch me and rub on me and always wants my attention. It bothers her when I don't talk to her and last night at the company holiday party she wanted me to dance with her. I said no since i'm kind of shy but she pulled me out on the dance floor and forced me to dance with her. I did the best I could on the dance floor to make her night but was sooooooo uncomfortable and was so relieved when it was over. Why be in a relationship if you are going to act like this toward another guy? That's why I'm so afraid of commitment. So it looks like she is sexually attracted to me and may want to have sex with me which is so wrong.
IMO, she is not happy with her boyfriend and is looking for a change.
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Old 12-19-2009, 10:45 AM
 
Location: North Carolina
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If you work with her. Thats a big hell no. If it turns out negative then you get to see her everyday and usually the relationship gets worse unless someone leaves the job. In my opinion, I would just give her the little attention shes needs to leave you alone and let it be.
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Old 12-19-2009, 10:51 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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Man, having everybody lusting after you must be hard!
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