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Old 12-28-2009, 06:31 PM
 
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The one thign that annoys me is when women expect Men to be superman who have no insecurites and never lack conidence,that doesn exit

Its called being HUMAN...

We all have insecurities and moments where our confidecne isnt at its highest point..

Evne the guys who get women and on the outside look to have no fears or insecurities do..

Its like women are so insecure and uncofnident that they want their Men to make up for it by having no issues in that department..
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Old 12-28-2009, 06:50 PM
 
Location: Under a bridge.
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I think being "human" is the best way to spend the rest of our lives.
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Old 12-28-2009, 07:09 PM
 
Location: Southeast Arizona
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It's impossible for men or anyone to not have insecurities, however I am pretty sure women like men who can conquer their insecurities or the biggest of them.
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Old 12-28-2009, 07:49 PM
 
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In defense of the gentlemen, this debate is about how we define masculininty, assertiveness, and what we think is attractive to women. When we also consider culture, religion, disability, income, and circumstances, it becomes even harder to slap the nice guy label on someone and say they are worthless or incompetent. Many people have called Jesus Christ(forgive not 7 but 77 times), Martin Luther King Jr. (passive resistance), and JFK (Cuban Missle Crisis) "nice guys." In the words of Emerson, "To be great is to be misunderstood."
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Old 12-28-2009, 07:50 PM
 
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Even better...a man that can make her overcome her own insecurities.
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Old 12-28-2009, 07:58 PM
 
Location: Southeast Arizona
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In defense of the gentlemen, this debate is about how we define masculininty, assertiveness, and what we think is attractive to women. When we also consider culture, religion, disability, income, and circumstances, it becomes even harder to slap the nice guy label on someone and say they are worthless or incompetent. Many people have called Jesus Christ(forgive not 7 but 77 times), Martin Luther King Jr. (passive resistance), and JFK (Cuban Missle Crisis) "nice guys." In the words of Emerson, "To be great is to be misunderstood."
Those that out men like us (gentlemen) unfairly are not be worth the time and should suffer with what they get in the end.
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Old 12-28-2009, 09:15 PM
 
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Those that out men like us (gentlemen) unfairly are not be worth the time and should suffer with what they get in the end.
Trust me, I've seen the pain of some of my wife's friends--they do suffer.
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Old 12-28-2009, 09:18 PM
 
Location: southern california
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Just 'cuz yur "nice" doesn't mean you gotta be a "wimp."
Just 'cuz yur a "wimp" doesn't mean yur "nice."

Just 'cuz yur "nice" doesn't mean you gotta be "only a friend."
Just 'cuz yur "only a friend" doesn't mean yur "nice."

Why can't a guy be nice, sexy, determined, confident, and physically fit ALL AT THE SAME TIME?
"whimp"???
oh now you did it.

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Old 12-28-2009, 09:33 PM
 
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whimp
oh now you did it.
huh?????
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Old 12-29-2009, 05:36 AM
 
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I think being "human" is the best way to spend the rest of our lives.
is there any other way we can spend it? Too bad genetic engineering is not that advanced yet.
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