Finally dumped him as a Christmas present.. lol (guy, mature, feelings)

[stan4]

Originally Posted by Chowhound

Your other post sorta defended her.

Did you re-read it or something cause now you're ragging on her.

As Jerry Sienfield might say "What is the deal"

I defend anyone who wants to break up with whomever whenever.

But not if she had planned it out specifically to be on that day just for funsies.

[Steve Bagu]

I am 22 yrs old...no closer to 22-1/2...actually 22-3/4...will be 23 in April.... give me a break ALREADY.

Ask a three yr old and they will say "I'm 3-1/2 yrs old".

[yankeegirl313]

Originally Posted by Sunflower_lol

As for the latest update: He calls me to wish me a Merry Christmas and I dumped him (asking to have him as a friend only). Luckily I didn't have to give out details for further explanations and he handled it well. I stated how I wanted to finish studying and basically was not interested in relationship but in meeting new people.

Strangely I don't real bad nor have any regrets whatsoever.

To dumpers: Have any of you broke up with them on a special day or during the Holiday?
To dumpees: Have you ever been dumped on one of those days? If so how you felt about it?

I hope that you are not proud and bragging about this?

Not nice.

[Thursday007]

Originally Posted by yankeegirl313

I hope that you are not proud and bragging about this?

Not nice.

Just read the title of the thread - there's your answer.

[yankeegirl313]

Originally Posted by Thursday007

Just read the title of the thread - there's your answer.

I did, but was hoping to give the benefit of the doubt, per say.

[Chowhound]

Originally Posted by yankeegirl313

I hope that you are not proud and bragging about this?

Not nice.

I think that the OP has some Daddy issues.

[Thursday007]

Originally Posted by yankeegirl313

I did, but was hoping to give the benefit of the doubt, per say.

Then read the thread (and previous threads) and it will remove all doubt. That is if you can stomache it.

[yankeegirl313]

Originally Posted by Sunflower_lol

You don't know how it is like to put up with something for sooo long. Try to picture the example of a quiet kid at school who everyone teases and rejects. He never does anything till one day he finally snaps. He was just tired of that treatment and had so much anger running within him that he had to do something about it. When he finally does it, it's like everyone is surprise, nothing they expected out of the kid. It makes sense in a way. If you bothered, reject or fool a person for too long, there will be a day the OP will snap at you.

Ah huh. Thats whats wrong with the world today!
No need in pushing them to the snapping point.

[jmm48532]

Originally Posted by Tropical Trouble

Seriously crappy thing to do.

I got dumped December 30, 1999. I still had to go to his family's New Years party because I was visiting from out of town and had nowhere else to go. Nice start to the new millennium

How sad. That must have been tough to hold it together in front of him and his family. I would've had a serious attitude prob and pissed off as hell.

[Thursday007]

Here's the backstory on the OP's misguided fiasco....it will spare us from re reading a new thread.

Straight forward or partial cover-up?