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Kind of a crappy thing to do, and you seem to think it's cute to hurt people too. I can see breaking up with the guy, its just your cold attitude about it.
He wasn't hurt about it. He sounded calm and still was nice...
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Originally Posted by 2RUGGED4YOU
Just make sure you find one that likes a good buffet!LOL JK It happens sometimes and he is still your friend.
. I was the quiet, shy almost doormat one. Nothing wrong with standing up for myself...
You weren't standing up for yourself. You coldly and deliberately decided to ruin this man's Christmas. I think the term psycho is appropriate. And just because he didn't give you the satisfaction of hering his hurt doesn't mean he didn't feel it. And if he remains friends with you, he's stupid, you don't deserve friends.
While it's good that you realized that you don't want to be a doormat, what has happened here isn't growth. It's a lateral move from doormat to sadist. So, you're pretty much in the same place, where it would probably be best if you moved out of this space all together.
You weren't standing up for yourself. You coldly and deliberately decided to ruin this man's Christmas. I think the term psycho is appropriate. And just because he didn't give you the satisfaction of hering his hurt doesn't mean he didn't feel it. And if he remains friends with you, he's stupid, you don't deserve friends.
It would have been a lot worst if I would have call him on Dec. 28 to break up with him... on his birthday..... The point is I didn't really planned this, the moment just came by. I would have break up regardless of the day he would have called.
It would have been a lot worst if I would have call him on Dec. 28 to break up with him... on his birthday..... The point is I didn't really planned this. I would have break up regardless of the day he would have called.
I remember you posting something awhile back, planning on breaking up with him. I thought it was a little creepy then the way you just kind of tossed it out there. If you're gonna break with someone just do it.
It would have been a lot worst if I would have call him on Dec. 28 to break up with him... on his birthday..... The point is I didn't really planned this. I would have break up regardless of the day he would have called.
You should have done it weeks even months ago when you were in HERE instead spouting off about it - so get off your high horse and stop trying to justify being a complete b***h for the fun of it. You aren't fooling anyone in here. You even put 'lol' in the title you psycho.
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JK It happens sometimes and he is still your friend.
