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That is a very iffy situation to be in..Maybe she does know and doesn't care because 1)they're not married and 2)he's smoking hot and she knows she may never get another and 3)maybe she's doing the same thing..
Has it ever occurred to any of you that perhaps she knows? If they've been together ten years, she likely has a clue. Maybe they have a "don't ask don't tell" situation, and you will only humiliate the girl by getting involved. The OP has no way of knowing that, since they are just friends and not acquaintances. My your own business!!
Hi Onglet39,
Oh well, we had to disagree somewhere. I am just not that kind of guy. When it comes to physical violence, which I equate with pathogenic exposure, I am an Antigone sort of fellow. I am the kind of guy who acts on principle, and I am adapted to social ostracization like a deep ocean squid. If someone cheated on me, I would want to know since I am under attack, and I like people like me best.
As for suppositions, maybe they do this, maybe that do that, maybe my brother is a ***.
That is a very iffy situation to be in..Maybe she does know and doesn't care because 1)they're not married and 2)he's smoking hot and she knows she may never get another and 3)maybe she's doing the same thing..
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I guess I just don't like puss filled syphilitic rakes cheating on their girlfriends. That might create a bias. I am sorry if I offend any over sexed incubators especially if I accidentally knock you down a flight of stairs, oops.
I guess I just don't like puss filled syphilitic rakes cheating on their girlfriends. That might create a bias. I am sorry if I offend any over sexed incubators especially if I accidentally knock you down a flight of stairs, oops.
You rock gwynedd1! Thanks for the downright, honest to goodness truth! Your posts are wonderful.....and you know, sometimes, it's okay to offend folks, sometimes that's the way to kick start a conscience!...well, if they've got a conscience to kick start!
If there are posters here who are cheaters....and they're offended by such posts....hehe....they might want to reconsider their actions; after all, there are a few folks out there with a sense of decency, and they just might be watching you!
OK. Here's the deal. I did go by her house. He wasn't there. This is what she said to me.
Thank you for letting me know. I've had my suspicions, but cannot catch him. I think he is having an affair with the girl across the street. I work two jobs and when I leave for my night job, it seems, like on cue, she comes home as I'm leaving. The neighbor has her own business and it closes at 7pm, but she can make up her own hours. He and I were in the front yard looking at the flowers on day last Spring on the side of the house and when I turned around he and she (the neighbor) were exchanging big smiles but then he jerked his head down to the ground like he was hiding it from me. He says that I'm seeing things and hearing things. I told him that was a breach of our trust and he told me he didn't do it. She had talked to him about being a flirt and he doesn't seem to think he is. He denies everything. She tells me that until she can actually prove it to herself, she is staying.
I am the only one that has brought it to her attention and she thanked me for it. I told her if she needed a shoulder that I was there for her. I could tell that her heart was breaking.
She told me lots of other things that were suspicious too.
OK. Here's the deal. I did go by her house. He wasn't there. This is what she said to me.
Thank you for letting me know. I've had my suspicions, but cannot catch him. I think he is having an affair with the girl across the street. I work two jobs and when I leave for my night job, it seems, like on cue, she comes home as I'm leaving. The neighbor has her own business and it closes at 7pm, but she can make up her own hours. He and I were in the front yard looking at the flowers on day last Spring on the side of the house and when I turned around he and she (the neighbor) were exchanging big smiles but then he jerked his head down to the ground like he was hiding it from me. He says that I'm seeing things and hearing things. I told him that was a breach of our trust and he told me he didn't do it. She had talked to him about being a flirt and he doesn't seem to think he is. He denies everything. She tells me that until she can actually prove it to herself, she is staying.
I am the only one that has brought it to her attention and she thanked me for it. I told her if she needed a shoulder that I was there for her. I could tell that her heart was breaking.
She told me lots of other things that were suspicious too.
Good for you!! You know, I've seen this sort of thing more times than I can count. These guys/gals who are being cheated on are made to feel like they're paranoid and distrustful. The cheater ends up turning it all back around on their mate, even to the point of accusing THEM of being the cheater. The victims end up defending themselves and feeling like crap for doubting their poor mate. Oh please!! It's so good that you extended a hand of friendship and a shoulder for her if she needs one. It's entirely possible that she will start asking others questions and putting 2 and 2 together, connecting the dots, so to speak.
Good for you!! You know, I've seen this sort of thing more times than I can count. These guys/gals who are being cheated on are made to feel like they're paranoid and distrustful. The cheater ends up turning it all back around on their mate, even to the point of accusing THEM of being the cheater. The victims end up defending themselves and feeling like crap for doubting their poor mate. Oh please!! It's so good that you extended a hand of friendship and a shoulder for her if she needs one. It's entirely possible that she will start asking others questions and putting 2 and 2 together, connecting the dots, so to speak.
Hi beachmel,
Woo hoo!
We can't leave him out. Here is a dirty cup for him, but we are not sure who used it last.
Good for you. Maybe now she'll take her head out of the sand. You did the right thing.
You mean the cat box.
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